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staceyd
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Re: SIL story - UPDATED - she replied to me
Posted by Mom2010
Scary! If I ddn't know better, I'd think we'd be hearing about this chick trying to steal a baby sometime in the near future to cover up her story.
Omg.. i totally agree with this!!!! Im nervous for this poor girl! My husband would be all over his sister if she was doing things like this and trying his hardest to get her some help!
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Re: SIL story - UPDATED - she replied to me
she needs help - fast. this is not something to take lightly.
i would contact whoever needs to be contacted - if she lives in ny u can call 911 and say she is putting herself or her unborn "child" at risk (which she essentially is if she is pregnant). they will take her - even against her will and evaluate her.
She needs mental help quickly..
as pp said i wouldnt be surprised if ur SIL commits a crime in order to get a baby
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| Posted 2/18/11 12:31 PM |
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MrsKS
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Re: SIL story - UPDATED - she replied to me
From my knowledge... she would have bled at some point with a MC (I had a missed miscarriage, meaning I didn't bleed and didn't know it - but I needed a DNC and had I not had one I'd have major infections and all now). She would have HUGE health problems with all that left behind inside her. The object of it is to get everything out, be it naturally or through a DNC (and some even end up doing both).
So i don't see how she would a. be healthy now and b. get pregnant again with sorry to be so graphic but a passed away baby and lining and all that still inside her.
I think she's wacked out of her mind. Sorry, but I totally do. I'm not sure if I think she believes she's pregnant (hysterical pregnancy which is rare) or if she knows she isn't and is just making up a story. But either way it's really insane behavior.
She could apply for temporary medicare, she could get regular medicare. she could even go to planned parenthood. But her real reason for not going is because she's not pregnant.
Does anyone have a relationship with her DH? What must he be thinking right about now? are you positive that he thinks she's pregnant? I'd try to get through to him over her. she's not going to give you a truthful or straight answer at all. But he might. He might even be scared for her.
This story doesn't add up. And the girl who said a baby in the hospital might be stolen soon.. I HATE to say it because it's terrible... but at this point I wouldn't put it passed her.
If I was her brother or her parents, I'd be on a plan with cash and a dr's appt set... and I'd drag her to the dr and make that appointment happen.
I don't think she's pregnant at all. And I think even her friends who see and feel the baby must think she's nuts too! No one in their right mind would hear this story and not think she's out of her mind.
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| Posted 2/18/11 12:39 PM |
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DreamComeTrue
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Re: SIL story - UPDATED - she replied to me
She lives in Florida. I'm not sure how this works if you don't have insurance. According to her a doctor won't even see her unless she has $500 cash for a sono.
Her husband is a dope. Seriously. No common sense. Just got fired from his job. The job he had before this was actually some sort of military that had them living on base but they got kicked off when he lied about finances after Hurricane Katrina.
So, now they live in a house with an 8 yr old girl, lost track of the number of pets they have and the husband keeps bringing more strays in. (Which btw, isn't cat litter bad for PG women?). She doesn't work. She homeschools the 8 yr old. And if they have no insurance, what is she going to do when it comes time to give "birth". Deliver the kid at home on her own? I asked DH what about vaccines. He said she doesn't believe in them. OMG!
Now, MIL isn't in a good financial situation at the moment and neither is DH's brother. We are ok but have our own LO to worry about and our own medical bills. FIL on the other hand is living very comfortably. If I were FIL I would write out a $500 check so she can get some medical care. But I guess he wouldn't do that for his daughter. I don't know. Their family is much different then my own.
So, I guess now we wait and see what kind of stunt she tries to pull or what her future excuses will be.
To be continued...
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| Posted 2/18/11 12:41 PM |
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Diana1215
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Re: SIL story - UPDATED - she replied to me
I think she's nuts!
To answer your miscarriage question: I am currently going through a miscarriage. I started bleeding two weeks ago tomorrow. If I wasn't so in touch with my cycles I could have possible missed being pregnant, and just thought THIS was my period, except now that it's lasting two weeks I would have known something was up. Also at times it was much heavier than a normal period.
I have heard people miscarry differently though. Some have just staining, some have hardly any blood, and some gush.
I could never imagine not knowing what was going on with my body though. She sounds toxic, and unfortunately if she is pregnant it sounds as if this poor baby didn't get the proper prenatal care it deserves. 
ETA: I have been getting monitored by my doctors since I started bleeding since it's very important that there is no tissue left behind in my body. I couldn't imagine not being under the care of a doctor and going through a miscarriage.
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| Posted 2/18/11 12:43 PM |
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MrsKS
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Re: SIL story - UPDATED - she replied to me
Posted by DreamComeTrue
She lives in Florida. I'm not sure how this works if you don't have insurance. According to her a doctor won't even see her unless she has $500 cash for a sono.
Her husband is a dope. Seriously. No common sense. Just got fired from his job. The job he had before this was actually some sort of military that had them living on base but they got kicked off when he lied about finances after Hurricane Katrina.
So, now they live in a house with an 8 yr old girl, lost track of the number of pets they have and the husband keeps bringing more strays in. (Which btw, isn't cat litter bad for PG women?). She doesn't work. She homeschools the 8 yr old. And if they have no insurance, what is she going to do when it comes time to give "birth". Deliver the kid at home on her own? I asked DH what about vaccines. He said she doesn't believe in them. OMG!
Now, MIL isn't in a good financial situation at the moment and neither is DH's brother. We are ok but have our own LO to worry about and our own medical bills. FIL on the other hand is living very comfortably. If I were FIL I would write out a $500 check so she can get some medical care. But I guess he wouldn't do that for his daughter. I don't know. Their family is much different then my own.
So, I guess now we wait and see what kind of stunt she tries to pull or what her future excuses will be.
To be continued...
who is the 8 year old girl? I'm concerned for her. I don't think this household is healthy for her.
how many pets do they have? It sounds like some sort of hoarding situation.
someone should do something. Especially now that I hear there's an 8 year old living under these conditions.
If it was me, I'd be contacting CPS along with all and any authorities to have this situation checked out.
Also, has anyone spoken to FIL about this?
Or asked him to help out because something isn't right?
this isn't something I would just sit on personally. I would HAVE to do something about it.
IDK who the 8 year old is, but does anyone have contact with her??
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| Posted 2/18/11 12:46 PM |
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Re: SIL story - UPDATED - she replied to me
Posted by MrsKS
Posted by DreamComeTrue
She lives in Florida. I'm not sure how this works if you don't have insurance. According to her a doctor won't even see her unless she has $500 cash for a sono.
Her husband is a dope. Seriously. No common sense. Just got fired from his job. The job he had before this was actually some sort of military that had them living on base but they got kicked off when he lied about finances after Hurricane Katrina.
So, now they live in a house with an 8 yr old girl, lost track of the number of pets they have and the husband keeps bringing more strays in. (Which btw, isn't cat litter bad for PG women?). She doesn't work. She homeschools the 8 yr old. And if they have no insurance, what is she going to do when it comes time to give "birth". Deliver the kid at home on her own? I asked DH what about vaccines. He said she doesn't believe in them. OMG!
Now, MIL isn't in a good financial situation at the moment and neither is DH's brother. We are ok but have our own LO to worry about and our own medical bills. FIL on the other hand is living very comfortably. If I were FIL I would write out a $500 check so she can get some medical care. But I guess he wouldn't do that for his daughter. I don't know. Their family is much different then my own.
So, I guess now we wait and see what kind of stunt she tries to pull or what her future excuses will be.
To be continued...
who is the 8 year old girl? I'm concerned for her. I don't think this household is healthy for her.
how many pets do they have? It sounds like some sort of hoarding situation.
someone should do something. Especially now that I hear there's an 8 year old living under these conditions.
If it was me, I'd be contacting CPS along with all and any authorities to have this situation checked out.
Also, has anyone spoken to FIL about this?
Or asked him to help out because something isn't right?
this isn't something I would just sit on personally. I would HAVE to do something about it.
IDK who the 8 year old is, but does anyone have contact with her??
The 8 yr old is their daughter (our niece). Back in the day when the niece was very young, there actually was a CPS case involving all of the pets. I honestly don't know how many they have of each but there are cats, dogs, birds, a rat. When FIL and his wife visit, they stay at a hotel that's how bad it is.
As for FIL, it is actually very coincidental that MIL called FIL last weekend (divorced) trying to get info because she felt out of the loop. He basically told her what we know which is basically nothing. (Funny how I sent my e-mail not knowing they've been in contact).
And supposedly SIL has been turned away by the hospital because it doesn't seem to be anything life threatening.
Um.. ok!
I just wish that instead of FIL booking his October vacation he could've been on the next plane to Florida to help his daughter since they seem to have an ok relationship.
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| Posted 2/18/11 12:59 PM |
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MrsKS
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Re: SIL story - UPDATED - she replied to me
Posted by DreamComeTrue
Posted by MrsKS
Posted by DreamComeTrue
She lives in Florida. I'm not sure how this works if you don't have insurance. According to her a doctor won't even see her unless she has $500 cash for a sono.
Her husband is a dope. Seriously. No common sense. Just got fired from his job. The job he had before this was actually some sort of military that had them living on base but they got kicked off when he lied about finances after Hurricane Katrina.
So, now they live in a house with an 8 yr old girl, lost track of the number of pets they have and the husband keeps bringing more strays in. (Which btw, isn't cat litter bad for PG women?). She doesn't work. She homeschools the 8 yr old. And if they have no insurance, what is she going to do when it comes time to give "birth". Deliver the kid at home on her own? I asked DH what about vaccines. He said she doesn't believe in them. OMG!
Now, MIL isn't in a good financial situation at the moment and neither is DH's brother. We are ok but have our own LO to worry about and our own medical bills. FIL on the other hand is living very comfortably. If I were FIL I would write out a $500 check so she can get some medical care. But I guess he wouldn't do that for his daughter. I don't know. Their family is much different then my own.
So, I guess now we wait and see what kind of stunt she tries to pull or what her future excuses will be.
To be continued...
who is the 8 year old girl? I'm concerned for her. I don't think this household is healthy for her.
how many pets do they have? It sounds like some sort of hoarding situation.
someone should do something. Especially now that I hear there's an 8 year old living under these conditions.
If it was me, I'd be contacting CPS along with all and any authorities to have this situation checked out.
Also, has anyone spoken to FIL about this?
Or asked him to help out because something isn't right?
this isn't something I would just sit on personally. I would HAVE to do something about it.
IDK who the 8 year old is, but does anyone have contact with her??
The 8 yr old is their daughter (our niece). Back in the day when the niece was very young, there actually was a CPS case involving all of the pets. I honestly don't know how many they have of each but there are cats, dogs, birds, a rat. When FIL and his wife visit, they stay at a hotel that's how bad it is.
As for FIL, it is actually very coincidental that MIL called FIL last weekend (divorced) trying to get info because she felt out of the loop. He basically told her what we know which is basically nothing. (Funny how I sent my e-mail not knowing they've been in contact).
And supposedly SIL has been turned away by the hospital because it doesn't seem to be anything life threatening.
Um.. ok!
I just wish that instead of FIL booking his October vacation he could've been on the next plane to Florida to help his daughter since they seem to have an ok relationship.
sounds like it's time to resurrect another CPS case. I'd 100% be reporting ALL of this. And part of the case would be the emotional state of the mother.... along with the father being an animal hoarder.
sorry but if your IL's stay at a hotel because the situation is so bad they can't stay there then how are they perfectly OK with having their granddaughter staying there day in and day out???? I don't understand that at all.
If I were you I'd be making a physical list of ALL these points and put whatever you can in chronological order with dates and all. Just an accurate description of the facts. And I'd be contacting CPS with this information.
You could even call the humane society to report the pets... or another pet organization as well.
this whole story is absurd and even as more points come out it only gets that much more absurd.
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| Posted 2/18/11 1:09 PM |
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Re: SIL story - UPDATED - she replied to me
this all sounds very scary & disturbing to me. I understand not having insurance and being unable to afford Dr visits & sonograms, but really? Hasn't she ever heard of Medicaid? I mean, that's why they're around - to help people who can't afford Medical Care. I just don't understand how you could not EVER get your baby checked out and just continue being pregnant without knowing how far along you are. That's why Doctors set a due date and will induce if you go too far over. It's not healthy for the baby to stay in there too long. So many things can go wrong after 42 weeks.
To answer your questions, I think basically you don't need a D&C only if the baby is small enough to pass on your own (meaning, yes, you bleed like a heavy period). I'm not sure what the time frame exactly, but I would think no later than 8 weeks along. So if she believed she was pregnant then she would KNOW that she had a m/c because it would have been like a period.
I don't know - this woman just sounds crazy. And I think thats very sad.
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| Posted 2/18/11 1:13 PM |
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Re: SIL story - UPDATED - she replied to me
I have a friend who has made up stories like this over the years. She actually tried telling me again last week that she was pregnant, which she is not. My friend is mentally ill with severe emotional issues. If I were you, I would place a call to CPS. Let them investigate. This woman is very disturbed and her 8 year old child needs to be protected.
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| Posted 2/18/11 1:27 PM |
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Re: SIL story - UPDATED - she replied to me
this is the craziest story ever!!! lol
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| Posted 2/18/11 1:27 PM |
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Re: SIL story - UPDATED - she replied to me
im sorry..as someone who has been trying to get pregnant for a year and has alo miscarried this story makes me sick...
someone need to get on a plane and go see what the hell is going on rather than taking her word for it..
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| Posted 2/18/11 2:01 PM |
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Re: SIL story - UPDATED - she replied to me
Posted by gina409
im sorry..as someone who has been trying to get pregnant for a year and has alo miscarried this story makes me sick...
i dont think theres any room for judgement here if this woman makes anyone sick or not pretending she is pregnannt.. she is mentally ill... she needs help..
i think calling a person who is clearly mentally ill "sick" is truly distasteful
i have had miscarriages in the past, have dealt with IF and immune issues... this has nothing to do with IF or being pregnant or any of that..
this has to do with someone being mentally ill
to the OP, ur SIL needs mental help quickly. I hope u are following steps to help that family out - whether her husbad is an idiot or not, there is a child involved whose safety is at risk.
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Re: SIL story - UPDATED - she replied to me
Posted by gina409
im sorry..as someone who has been trying to get pregnant for a year and has alo miscarried this story makes me sick...
someone need to get on a plane and go see what the hell is going on rather than taking her word for it..
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I have had 3 miscarriages, the last one at 11.5 weeks, and I am not sickened bythis story. I am completely concerned about this woman's mental status and 8 year old. This woman clearly has had some kind of mental break and is ill and needs psychiatric care.
I do agree though that someone needs to get there and see what is really going on, for the safety of the family members.
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| Posted 2/18/11 4:22 PM |
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It sounds to me like she is jealous that you are pregnant and maybe thinks your DC will take the spot light now.
It says your EDD is July and she said she was due in June.
I think she needs to speak to a mental professional and I would be very cautious with her around your child. I wouldn't ever leave her alone with your dc.
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Re: SIL story - UPDATED - she replied to me
Just wanted to say that just because she looked "very pregnant" in pics doesnt mean she is.
In Destination Maternity they have those fake bellies that you can strap on in the fitting rooms so you could estimate how you would look/how the clothes fit. She could have easily bought something like that.
I really hope she gets the help she needs and FAST!! HOnestly I think the person who would have the most honest inisight as to whats really going on is the 8 year old girl. Kids are very innocent and would spill the beans very quickly, but of course it has to be done in a professional way/setting i.e psycologist or social worker.
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| Posted 2/18/11 4:44 PM |
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Re: SIL story - UPDATED - she replied to me
Couold she have had the baby and given it away or god forbid sold it? Doesn't sound like they can afford themselves right now nevermind a new baby. I am worried for the other kid.
Do you know any of her friends down there?
If it was one of my siblings I would have been on a plane already to find out what is happening and make sure everyone is ok
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| Posted 2/18/11 4:53 PM |
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Re: SIL story - UPDATED - she replied to me
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Posted by gina409
im sorry..as someone who has been trying to get pregnant for a year and has alo miscarried this story makes me sick...
i dont think theres any room for judgement here if this woman makes anyone sick or not pretending she is pregnannt.. she is mentally ill... she needs help..
i think calling a person who is clearly mentally ill "sick" is truly distasteful
i have had miscarriages in the past, have dealt with IF and immune issues... this has nothing to do with IF or being pregnant or any of that..
this has to do with someone being mentally ill
to the OP, ur SIL needs mental help quickly. I hope u are following steps to help that family out - whether her husbad is an idiot or not, there is a child involved whose safety is at risk.
whoa..u may think i am distasteful all u want..how do u know she is mentally ill?..she could be she could not be..but if ur sister in law or daughter or whoever was saying she thinks she is prgnant for the past 13 months..thinks she had a miscarriage then got pregnant again..and if she is pregnant has not done one thing to care for this child inside her bc she cannot afford it yes that leaves a bad taste in my mouth..
bc i would get to the bottom of this crazy story and make sure not only is she and the "baby"being cared for but the 8yr old child she has at home
i was not judging anyone the way you just judged me..i am saying hearing a story like this makes me sick bc if she is preggo no care has been done for that baby
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Re: SIL story - UPDATED - she replied to me
She either needs a psychiatrist or a divorce lawyer because she's either mentally ill or getting pregnant by someone who didn't have a vasectomy!
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Posted by Mom2010
Scary! If I ddn't know better, I'd think we'd be hearing about this chick trying to steal a baby sometime in the near future to cover up her story.
That is such a scary but true thought!
I hope everything works out ok for your SIL, and that she gets whatever type of help she needs...
(I know somebody who m/c @ around 12 weeks and needed a d&c...)
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Re: SIL story - UPDATED - she replied to me
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Posted by gina409
im sorry..as someone who has been trying to get pregnant for a year and has alo miscarried this story makes me sick...
i dont think theres any room for judgement here if this woman makes anyone sick or not pretending she is pregnannt.. she is mentally ill... she needs help..
i think calling a person who is clearly mentally ill "sick" is truly distasteful
i have had miscarriages in the past, have dealt with IF and immune issues... this has nothing to do with IF or being pregnant or any of that..
this has to do with someone being mentally ill
to the OP, ur SIL needs mental help quickly. I hope u are following steps to help that family out - whether her husbad is an idiot or not, there is a child involved whose safety is at risk.
I think what Gina meant was the story itself is sick... mostly because the family is doing nothing about it. Sure an email was sent... but what does that do?
And as the story unfolded it only got worse and worse and yet the family just sits by.
It is a sickening story.
really if your kid or your sibling was in this much of high level situation... wouldn't someone get on a plane to go see what's happening rather than just stand by? And even the no money excuse... take up a fund... each person contribute $100. there are so many ways to fix this but all I hear are excuses of why it's not been checked out.... that's sickening.
If the woman is indeed mentally ill... then she does need help... but that doesn't make the story itself and how the family has done nothing any less sickening. It doesn't make the mentally ill woman sickening. But the fact that there's an 8 year old kid already in this home and no one in the family seems to care or do anything..... that's sickening. If this is a true story, I don't think the woman is pregnant but I do see there's a kid already in that household and she deserves a better life. Why the whole focus on whether or not she's pregnant? What about saving the actual kid that's there already?
I'm not even 100% convinced it's a true story. Maybe, maybe not.
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Re: SIL story - UPDATED - she replied to me
Everything I have mentioned is true, so it is a true story.
As for the pictures, there was no padding or anything fake because FIL and his wife were with her when those pics were taken and felt her bare belly.
I don't know why FIL hasn't gotten on a plane to help her out financially.
MIL doesn't have a good relationship with her and just argues and judges when they speak on the phone.
BIL may be losing his job so he can't do anything to help her financially.
We have our own medical bills with our LO on the way and can't exactly fork over $500.
I tried bringing this up with DH about why no one is helping. If SIL is eligible for Medicaid or something similar. He doesn't know. We don't even know if she's tried. He said "You see how she gets when someone tries to push the issue" so obviously SIL doesn't want the help.
As for their daughter and living with all the pets, it's not "hoarding" but I guess enough to make one think it is. I don't know. I've never been to their home. I've never even met my SIL, her husband or our niece. (She makes excuses why she can't afford to go to NY for our wedding or for a visit and won't accept money).
I really don't know what else to say about this until something happens that I have more facts.
The reason I originially posted was because I thought it would catch people's interest and now that she said the only thing she can come up with is that she had a m/c and conceived again makes it all even stranger.
I don't think a baby will be getting stolen. She shot down my accusation of her giving birth and not telling the family.
So, as her "little brother's wife" I am not pushing the issue any further with her. But I think I may explode with my in-laws. My parents would NEVER let this happen to me.
So... thanks for reading and all of the replies. MIL has even stated herself in the past she thinks her daughter is mentally ill. I don't know why they aren't helping her more. About a year ago MIL offered for SIL and our niece to stay in her TN home to get their life on track under one condition: no pets and SIL turned down the offer.
I already have my own issues with my in-laws so I think one of these days they are going to hear it from me if nothing changes. It's not even the fact that I care so much about SIL but it's this "baby" I am so worried about. Being pregnant myself, I just feel these babies are so innocent and they come into this world with nothing and rely on us, their parents, to give them everything. And so far this baby has gotten nothing. 
I will keep you informed of this little one, our future niece or nephew. I just can't give you an EDD because neither can SIL.
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| Posted 2/19/11 10:36 AM |
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Re: SIL story - UPDATED - she replied to me
I can't believe you keep talking like there really is a baby! After reading all this, I can't believe there is a baby... And am honestly not sure I believe the story....
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Re: SIL story - UPDATED - she replied to me
Posted by IrishLass
Posted by gina409
im sorry..as someone who has been trying to get pregnant for a year and has alo miscarried this story makes me sick...
someone need to get on a plane and go see what the hell is going on rather than taking her word for it..
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I have had 3 miscarriages, the last one at 11.5 weeks, and I am not sickened bythis story. I am completely concerned about this woman's mental status and 8 year old. This woman clearly has had some kind of mental break and is ill and needs psychiatric care.
I do agree though that someone needs to get there and see what is really going on, for the safety of the family members.
I have had 2 M/Cs & i kind of agree that i cant understand why someone isnt going to this girl to help her out & find out what the heck is going on. I mean no vitamins, no dr care, nothing??? It is a little sickening to think that this poor baby isnt getting the proper care. IF IN FACT she is truly pregnant. In any case this person needs some serious help. No matter what is going on. Someone needs to step in. I think thats what Gina means.  Although sorry i kind of think this entire thread is false. Just sayin
Message edited 2/19/2011 7:58:12 PM.
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