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Am I grasping at straws here?

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MrsDeVito
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Am I grasping at straws here?

Today was my first beta, my RE does two betas, two days apart. They don't give you the results of the first one though.

They did call and tell me to add a shot of progesterone today and tomorrow in addition to the suppositories I'm taking 4x a day.

My thought is, if the beta was negetive why would the even bother having me add more progesterone?

Am I grasping here?

Posted 7/5/10 1:34 PM
 
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FlowerWife
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Re: Am I grasping at straws here?

i def think thats a good sign since most REs tell you to stop progesterone at a negative beta.

why would your RE do 2 and not tell you the first one??! that seems like its torturous!!! i would totally POAS!!!!

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Posted 7/5/10 1:40 PM
 

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Re: Am I grasping at straws here?

Posted by FlowerWife

i def think thats a good sign since most REs tell you to stop progesterone at a negative beta.

why would your RE do 2 and not tell you the first one??! that seems like its torturous!!! i would totally POAS!!!!

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I agree!!

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Posted 7/5/10 2:04 PM
 

maybemommy10
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Re: Am I grasping at straws here?

Agreed, they always tell you to stop progesterone immediately. Crossing all body parts for you, but it sounds REALLY REALLY GOOD !!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Did you poas today?

Message edited 7/5/2010 2:07:26 PM.

Posted 7/5/10 2:07 PM
 

MrsDeVito
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Re: Am I grasping at straws here?

Posted by FlowerWife

i def think thats a good sign since most REs tell you to stop progesterone at a negative beta.

why would your RE do 2 and not tell you the first one??! that seems like its torturous!!! i would totally POAS!!!!

so much Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon and Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon to you!!!!!!!!!!!!



It is torture but I think their reasoning is to see if the numbers go up in that 2 days. I guess that way they avoid telling you yes you're pregnant and then god forbid you have an early m/c or it's a chemical, KWIM? I think it's just like an insurance policy.

Posted 7/5/10 2:29 PM
 

MrsDeVito
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Re: Am I grasping at straws here?

Posted by maybemommy10

Agreed, they always tell you to stop progesterone immediately. Crossing all body parts for you, but it sounds REALLY REALLY GOOD !!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Did you poas today?



I didn't POAS today, I did the last 3 days though and all BFN's.

Thanks for crossing all the body parts!

Posted 7/5/10 2:31 PM
 

mnmsoinlove
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Re: Am I grasping at straws here?

I think its a good sign! Many Prayers!!!!

Posted 7/5/10 5:58 PM
 

FlowerWife
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Re: Am I grasping at straws here?

Posted by MrsDeVito


It is torture but I think their reasoning is to see if the numbers go up in that 2 days. I guess that way they avoid telling you yes you're pregnant and then god forbid you have an early m/c or it's a chemical, KWIM? I think it's just like an insurance policy.



i would totally not be OK with that. i understand that having a chemical can be sad, but i would rather know about it and be able to investigate the reasons why, instead of having them not tell me! obviously thats totally my own opinion, i just didnt realize that some RE's do that. i feel like it should be your choice, not theres..

but either way i didnt want to make this a political discussion, just offer more Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon and Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon for you!!

Posted 7/5/10 6:01 PM
 

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Re: Am I grasping at straws here?

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Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I hope this is it for you Christina!!!!

Posted 7/5/10 6:10 PM
 

shelby34
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Re: Am I grasping at straws here?

I think that may be a good sign....doesn't make sense otherwise.

LOTS of prayers and baby dust to you!!!!
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Posted 7/5/10 6:12 PM
 

Athee
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Re: Am I grasping at straws here?

This only sounds like a good sign... when i had my BFN during my first FET my doctor told me to immediately stop all meds i was on including progesterone... my guess is he probably wants to make your progesterone level a little bit higher! praying that this is it for you!!!!!

Posted 7/5/10 6:46 PM
 

MrsDeVito
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Re: Am I grasping at straws here?

Posted by FlowerWife

Posted by MrsDeVito


It is torture but I think their reasoning is to see if the numbers go up in that 2 days. I guess that way they avoid telling you yes you're pregnant and then god forbid you have an early m/c or it's a chemical, KWIM? I think it's just like an insurance policy.



i would totally not be OK with that. i understand that having a chemical can be sad, but i would rather know about it and be able to investigate the reasons why, instead of having them not tell me! obviously thats totally my own opinion, i just didnt realize that some RE's do that. i feel like it should be your choice, not theres..

but either way i didnt want to make this a political discussion, just offer more Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon and Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon for you!!



ITA, I'm sure though that if it was a chemical they would tell me. I think they would just rather tell me from the start that I had a chemical rather than have me get all excited that I was pregnant only to be let down.

Thanks for the prayers and dust!

Posted 7/5/10 6:52 PM
 

Squirl1003
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Re: Am I grasping at straws here?

You are going to ECF right? I just wanted to add that I had the same exact thing happen a few days ago. Had my first beta and they called and said to increase progesterone. They called me yesterday after my second beta and said that I am pregnant. I think it is a great sign!!

Posted 7/5/10 9:39 PM
 

smp123
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Re: Am I grasping at straws here?

i think it's a great sign! why would they have you take anything if your beta was zero? did you POAS tonight?

best of luck to you!!

Posted 7/5/10 9:47 PM
 

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Re: Am I grasping at straws here?



Lot's of prayers your way!!!! I think things are looking good if they told u to take the progesterone!!!!

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I hope u get a BFP!!!!!!

Posted 7/6/10 8:15 AM
 

LadyBug1209
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Re: Am I grasping at straws here?

Ahhhh I hope this is it for you!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I agree with all the other ladies.. having you increase your progesterone is a GREAT sign!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/6/10 8:52 AM
 

MrsDeVito
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Re: Am I grasping at straws here?

Posted by Squirl1003

You are going to ECF right? I just wanted to add that I had the same exact thing happen a few days ago. Had my first beta and they called and said to increase progesterone. They called me yesterday after my second beta and said that I am pregnant. I think it is a great sign!!



OMG reading this made my heart skip a beat. I really hope I have the same outcome as you!

Posted 7/6/10 9:59 AM
 

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Re: Am I grasping at straws here?

Good luck!! Sounds good!!!
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Posted 7/6/10 10:05 AM
 

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Re: Am I grasping at straws here?

OMG, sounds GREAT! Best of luck!

Posted 7/6/10 10:30 AM
 

wants2bamom
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Re: Am I grasping at straws here?

I hope this is it for you!!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/6/10 1:33 PM
 

KrisClaire
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Re: Am I grasping at straws here?

Mrs. Devito, If i remember right, your embies were on the little cell size when they were implanted. that would put you a few days behind. I would def POAS. Your results before could be just under the limit for POAS. I think if you are upping the progesterone that its a good sign. I have my fingers crossed for you and your embies in my prayers.
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Posted 7/6/10 1:35 PM
 

MrsDeVito
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Re: Am I grasping at straws here?

Posted by KrisClaire

Mrs. Devito, If i remember right, your embies were on the little cell size when they were implanted. that would put you a few days behind. I would def POAS. Your results before could be just under the limit for POAS. I think if you are upping the progesterone that its a good sign. I have my fingers crossed for you and your embies in my prayers.
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Yes they were, I didn't realize that b/c they were less cells it would put me a few days behind. That would totally explain why at 5, 6 and 7dp3dt I got BFN's. I haven't tested since Sunday morning. I think I'll just hold out until tomorrow's beta though.

Thanks so much for bringing this to my attention and for the well wishes!

Posted 7/6/10 1:45 PM
 

MrsC614
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Re: Am I grasping at straws here?

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon for you all the time!!!!!! it sounds good and i hope this is it!!! xoxo

Posted 7/6/10 3:27 PM
 
 

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