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leighla
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Lauren
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BFN *updated...I'm going to Boston!*
Well, I kind of knew it. But my HPT showed a BFN this morning.
Waiting on the bloodwork, but I know what the answer will be.
Despite being prepared for it, I'm still really upset.
And now I have a dilemma. We are supposed to go to Boston this weekend for my birthday but if things go according to cycle, CD3 will be while we're in Boston.
So I can either give up the only fun thing I've done in a while. Something I've been looking forward to and really want to do.
Or I can give up my last chance at concieving prior to IVF. We would miss the opportunity to do one final IUI.
Hello rock and hard place. 
Anyway, I hope I'm the only one that's sitting on a BFN this week. I want to see you other ladies move on!!
Kara & Lisa, I'm pulling for you today!! And Donna, Pauline and Theresa !!
Message edited 6/6/2006 10:35:09 AM.
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redstar
Delay is not denial
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Michelle
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Re: BFN...
I am so sorry Lauren 
Some clinics don't do day 3 bloodwork all the time, if your levels are fairly stable and you aren't prone to cysts. If they have to order you meds, perhaps they can do that beforehand. I would discuss this with the doctor, tell him your situation.
I know it's so difficult but I really hope you are able to enjoy this trip....
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| Posted 6/5/06 8:30 AM |
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luvsun27
Check out my cool glasses
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Kim
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Re: BFN...
Oh Lauren 
I would talk to the doctor about the CD3 bloodwork. During my last IUI...I was schedule to come in on CD10 for them to check my follies...but I was going to be in Ohio, and I asked if I could come on CD12 or would it be too late. They told me I can come on the later date and take my chances....it worked out for me and they were just able to monitor from CD12 onwards.
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| Posted 6/5/06 8:39 AM |
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Red
spring is in the air
Member since 11/05 2688 total posts
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helen
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Re: BFN...
I'm so sorry, but maybe you can go to a Quest lab in Boston and have the results sent to your dr
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| Posted 6/5/06 9:01 AM |
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CookiePuss
Cake from Outer Space!
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Re: BFN...
I'm sorry Lauren.
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| Posted 6/5/06 9:14 AM |
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karacg
Babygirl is 4!
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Kara®
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Re: BFN...
Ahh Lauren I am so sorry. It should get easier but it gets harder, doesn't it?
I would go to Boston and have a great time. As Redstar said, they shouldn't really need CD3 bw again.... talk to your Dr. and try to enjoy yourself. Go to the Improv I told you about on the North End, eat lots of oysters, and who knows...?
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| Posted 6/5/06 9:24 AM |
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Diane
Hope is Contagious....catch it
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| Posted 6/5/06 10:05 AM |
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juju
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Re: BFN...
I'm so sorry Lauren!!!
Message edited 6/5/2006 10:21:45 AM.
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| Posted 6/5/06 10:21 AM |
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calendargrl
LIF Adult
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jan
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casey31
Mommy of 3!
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Re: BFN...
Lauren- I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope your doctor says you can skip the CD3 bloodwork and you have fun in Boston.
I love the North End!!
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| Posted 6/5/06 11:24 AM |
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LisaW
Time for me to FLY!
Member since 5/05 13199 total posts
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Did I ever tell you that I hate people?
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Re: BFN...
I'm so sorry Lauren
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| Posted 6/5/06 11:41 AM |
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Tah-wee-ZAH
Kisses
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Re: BFN...
I am so sorry.
I can sympathize about "feeling grounded". My cycle still isn't normal so we basicially can't travel at all. DH wanted to buy is Sunday matinee theater tixs for our anniversary and I said, no we can't, knowing me I'll have to go in that day and won't be out in time
If you already are set for IVF, I'd go to Boston.
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| Posted 6/5/06 11:57 AM |
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mrsmck
Be a big girl!
Member since 5/05 4898 total posts
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Donna
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Re: BFN...
Go to boston, relax and have a great birthday!!!! 
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| Posted 6/5/06 11:58 AM |
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krashnburn
I am Batman!
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I'm Batman, I tell you!
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Re: BFN...
Go to Boston and have fun. It might be good for you to take a break.
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| Posted 6/5/06 12:01 PM |
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Sharon
So Big... So Fast!
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Re: BFN...
I'm so sorry Lauren. I would go to Boston and have fun. Dealing with IF is so taxing on you, a little get a way may be just what you need.
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| Posted 6/5/06 12:10 PM |
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michele31
LIF Adult
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Michele
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| Posted 6/5/06 1:27 PM |
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rose825
Best Friends
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Re: BFN...
I am so sorry you even have to give it a thought. Life is too short. Have fun is Boston. Maybe your MD can work around your schedule.
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| Posted 6/5/06 2:52 PM |
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FeliciaDP
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Re: BFN...
Oh Lauren, it just isn't fair
I'm sorry about your BFN
... wishing you a happy birthday and hoping you have a wonderful weekend in Boston.. you deserve that much
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| Posted 6/5/06 4:10 PM |
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DebG
Pick a cause & stand up for it
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The cure IS worse!
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Re: BFN...
ooh Lauren- I am so sorry for oyu as well. Yikes what a hard day all around on this board.
I say go to Boston and try to have an amazing time
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| Posted 6/5/06 4:11 PM |
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dm24angel
Happiness
Member since 5/05 34581 total posts
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Donna
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Re: BFN...
GO TO BOSTON!! It will be a much needed fun time!
Im so sorry Laur! I know how hard it is, and nothing makes it any easy, but I am sorry and sending you lots of hugs! :
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| Posted 6/5/06 5:33 PM |
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dooodles
When you wish upon a star
Member since 5/05 11997 total posts
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Re: BFN...
I am so sorry
I hope you have a fabulous time in Boston and have a wonderful birthday
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| Posted 6/5/06 6:14 PM |
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robcoll1002
My Beautiful Babies
Member since 5/05 2073 total posts
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Colleen
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Re: BFN...
I'm so sorry. Go to Boston and enjoy.
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| Posted 6/5/06 6:52 PM |
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sylvester
LIF Infant
Member since 10/05 325 total posts
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Rosanna
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Re: BFN...
Sorry to hear this. I think you should go to Boston and enjoy yourself. take care.
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| Posted 6/5/06 6:55 PM |
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michele31
LIF Adult
Member since 5/05 3372 total posts
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Michele
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Re: BFN...
Go to Boston and just enjoy your weekend. I am so truly sorry
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| Posted 6/5/06 9:49 PM |
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anedi
LIF Infant
Member since 4/06 193 total posts
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Diane
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Re: BFN...
Enjoy Boston...I'm so sorry
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