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9 months overdue.... My labor of love (Birth Montage)

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Blissful
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Maria

9 months overdue.... My labor of love (Birth Montage)

Many of you know I was attempting a homebirth. To make a long story short after 3 days of labor and not dilating I transferred to the hospital

It took me MONTHS to deal with my "loss"..... homebirth loss that is... but I can finally think back at the day and in the beauty of those hours at home...

I never wrote a birthstory... it was too painful. Instead here is a picture montage of those 3 AMAZING DAYS!!!!

(WARNING: Some partial nudity)

THis was a form a therapy for em to finally put this together

A Labor of Love

Message edited 12/4/2009 1:23:59 AM.

Posted 12/3/09 11:05 PM
 
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ChrisDee
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Re: 9 months overdue.... My labor of love (Birth Montage)

WOW, that was amazing! Your DD is lucky to have a mom like you that has taken the time to document her birth so beautifully!

Posted 12/3/09 11:16 PM
 

MrsRivera
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Beth

Re: 9 months overdue.... My labor of love (Birth Montage)

You are a brave woman indeed. Gorgeous pics!

Posted 12/3/09 11:17 PM
 

InShock
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Re: 9 months overdue.... My labor of love (Birth Montage)

Beautiful.Chat Icon

Posted 12/3/09 11:19 PM
 

Grill
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J

Re: 9 months overdue.... My labor of love (Birth Montage)

I'm crying. That was absolutely beautiful. I love that you provided skin to skin for your DD with DH....love the pic of his Dad (presumably) kissing him and the one of you and DH kissing with DD in the middle. There were so many amazing moments captured. What a true testament to the intensity and power of labor, delivery and the making of a new family. I'm sorry that your homebirth didn't work out. I can't imagine the disappointment you must have felt. It looks like you brought so many elements of your vision to the hospital with you though and I hope you take comfort and pride in that. I'm truly touced by your montage. Thank you so much for sharing. Chat Icon

Posted 12/3/09 11:26 PM
 

twinkletoes807
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Re: 9 months overdue.... My labor of love (Birth Montage)

Jesus Maria!! Must you always make me cry with your pictures. Gorgeous. Simply stunning. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/3/09 11:26 PM
 

Shelleybean11
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Re: 9 months overdue.... My labor of love (Birth Montage)

Wow! That is beautiful!!

Posted 12/3/09 11:27 PM
 

Blissful
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Maria

Re: 9 months overdue.... My labor of love (Birth Montage)

Posted by twinkletoes807

Jesus Maria!! Must you always make me cry with your pictures. Gorgeous. Simply stunning. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



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Posted 12/3/09 11:27 PM
 

babymakes3
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Re: 9 months overdue.... My labor of love (Birth Montage)

Beautiful!!

Posted 12/3/09 11:29 PM
 

Kidsaplenty
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Re: 9 months overdue.... My labor of love (Birth Montage)

Maria, those pictures are beautiful. I can see your strength and the pain through the pictures. I know that with my difficult labor with Amelia, I would have never made it as long as you, and she was my 5th! Your strength through that amazes me.

I'm glad you've healed enough to put that montage together. It was beautiful. Chat Icon

Posted 12/3/09 11:36 PM
 

Angel321
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Re: 9 months overdue.... My labor of love (Birth Montage)

that was absolutely amazing!

a few of those pictures had me in tears!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted 12/3/09 11:38 PM
 

LoveyQ
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Re: 9 months overdue.... My labor of love (Birth Montage)

What a beautiful testament to labor, delivery, and Lexi's arrival! Chat Icon I'm sure she will treasure this so much when she's older!

Posted 12/3/09 11:40 PM
 

DomesticDeeva
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Dee

Re: 9 months overdue.... My labor of love (Birth Montage)

Aww that was amazing...how nice that she will have this to look back on.

I wish I could have done that, however mine would have resembled a remake of the Exorcist Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Linda Blair ain't got nothing on me Chat Icon

Posted 12/4/09 12:04 AM
 

BnBdreamin
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Re: 9 months overdue.... My labor of love (Birth Montage)

How wonderfully beautiful!! Chat Icon

I have such a different story to tell, since my labor was less than 3 hours from the first contraction until DS was born, so there is not one photo of me in labor (but I could take 3 days to tell it!) Chat Icon . Your "story" is so precious! What a great keepsake you've made for your family and daughter! Chat Icon

Posted 12/4/09 12:14 AM
 

MeganMylo
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Re: 9 months overdue.... My labor of love (Birth Montage)

That made me cry, and I am not a crier, what a beautiful gift you made for her!
I love the song you chose, who is it by, I have heard it before and I love it.

Posted 12/4/09 12:16 AM
 

Blissful
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Maria

Re: 9 months overdue.... My labor of love (Birth Montage)

Posted by MeganMylo

That made me cry, and I am not a crier, what a beautiful gift you made for her!
I love the song you chose, who is it by, I have heard it before and I love it.



Thanks

the first song is "Amazing" by Janelle
second is "lullaby" by the dixie chicks

Posted 12/4/09 12:19 AM
 

MeganMylo
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Re: 9 months overdue.... My labor of love (Birth Montage)

thanks for the song info

Really just so beautiful! I love how you captured it all. I think your very brave to attempt a home birth. thank you for sharing that. Now I am kicking myself for not having more pictures take during my labor!

Posted 12/4/09 12:36 AM
 

Blissful
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Maria

Re: 9 months overdue.... My labor of love (Birth Montage)

Posted by Grill

I'm crying. That was absolutely beautiful. I love that you provided skin to skin for your DD with DH....love the pic of his Dad (presumably) kissing him and the one of you and DH kissing with DD in the middle. There were so many amazing moments captured. What a true testament to the intensity and power of labor, delivery and the making of a new family. I'm sorry that your homebirth didn't work out. I can't imagine the disappointment you must have felt. It looks like you brought so many elements of your vision to the hospital with you though and I hope you take comfort and pride in that. I'm truly touced by your montage. Thank you so much for sharing. Chat Icon



thanks... Skin to skin was very important to me. I tore pretty bad so while they were stitching me DH held her on his chest. We did skin to skin A LOT the first 2 months.

Yes, that was FIL kissing DH... such a sweet moment!

Posted 12/4/09 12:45 AM
 

monkeybride
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Re: 9 months overdue.... My labor of love (Birth Montage)

So beautiful Maria. I'm so glad you were able to put that together. You don't need a birth story...that tells it all.
I so wish I was comfortable enough with my body to have photographs of my labors and belly shots.

Posted 12/4/09 12:52 AM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: 9 months overdue.... My labor of love (Birth Montage)

amazing Chat Icon

Posted 12/4/09 8:24 AM
 

mrsgafforio
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Christine

Re: 9 months overdue.... My labor of love (Birth Montage)

Amazing!!

Posted 12/4/09 8:32 AM
 

NoStressMom
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D

Re: 9 months overdue.... My labor of love (Birth Montage)

Ok thank you need to go fix my makeup so beautiful!!! Love the song choices!!! You made such a beautfiul memories for your daughter!!! Chat Icon

Posted 12/4/09 8:41 AM
 

pickles16
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Re: 9 months overdue.... My labor of love (Birth Montage)

Thats was so moving..honestly touching and haunting!

Posted 12/4/09 8:46 AM
 

FelAndJon
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Re: 9 months overdue.... My labor of love (Birth Montage)

That was so beautiful. I loved how you switched form black and white to color once she was born. What a story that told and what a beautiful memory for your DD when she is older Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/4/09 8:48 AM
 

babyonthebrain
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Re: 9 months overdue.... My labor of love (Birth Montage)

Beautiful montage! thanks for sharing!

Posted 12/4/09 8:55 AM
 
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