Look, I appologize to everyone for very poorly wording the original thread, and making it sound like I'm some loon chasing after families on the road. It was very poorly written (mainly becuase I was talking to DH while simultaneously posting... and probably harvesting words unconsciously from that parallel conversation). I know, multi-tasking not always a prudent thing...

On the flipside, I kindly ask that you "don't go there" when it comes to my son and his dev't. been there, done that, and I will not recant what I observed. I won't discuss it, nor do I ask any skeptics to believe it. Just drop it, ok? Leave it to us and our ped.