DS was STTN & able to put himself back to sleep at 8 months great. By 7:30/8 he was asleep until about 6am. Then he got RSV and was sick for about 3 wks with it, and and then started to be fussy at bedtime and also now seems to scream his head off like he is being murdered. He is waking at either 1130pm and or like 4/430am. He is teething too we can tell and we are giving him meds to help. Seems that the only way to get him to sleep is falling asleep to the bottle or sit on rocker with him. Even when I pat his back while he is in the crib he freaks when I stop (I used to be able to pat his back for 2 mins and walk out while he wasn't totally asleep).

I have a 3.5 y/o DD who he is waking up from the screaming when I try CIO when he wakes up and that is what is compelling me to not .referber.

Any suggestions???? TIA