Please help me find a new hairstyle!! I am seriously in need.

For most of my life, I have hated my hair. The only time I have liked it is when I had JHS. But, I have some grays now, and was told JHS would not be good for my hair. I've had the keratin, but it only looks good for a very short period on me, and even then, not especially good. I don't have the time or money to go as often as I would need to for that.

I like long hair, but realize I may need to give it up. My hair gets puffy easily. It tangles easily. It is a cross between wavy and curly, and depending on how i style it and what products i use. Even though it can look puffy, when it's straightened properly, it's actually quite fine and thin.

I don't have much time to style in the mornings, and I despise blow drying my hair (takes too long, and I don't like straightening it with the big curling brush)

I'm ok with my natural color. It's a medium/dark brown. I've tried blonde and blonde highlights, and they don't look good on me. Dark hair makes my hazel eyes look lighter, and everyone says I look better with darker hair. Also, the darker my hair, the shinier it looks. When my hair is light, it looks dry.

OK--any ideas for a good cut and style? I would LOVE pic ideas.

TIA!!!