Oh fashion mavens- help me accessorize!

I got two dresses for two different weddings I'm going to. I can't decide which one to wear when. First wedding is August 6 (a vow renewal that has turned into something huge, and my DD is flower girl. Supposedly they're not even having a pro photographer ), second is September 9 (my sister-in-laws, so I will be in pro pics for this one).

Okay, here's dress #1


The one I have has a mixture of light/dark blue and a teeny bit of black. Can anyone find jewelry/shoes? I need comfy if I'm going to be wearing this to a wedding where I'm chasing my child around!

Dress #2
Gonna have to work to dress this up a bit more. I also got this in blue, not the color shown

Thanks in advance!!! I'm really horrible at this stuff.

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Message edited 7/11/2011 2:59:17 PM.