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bella28
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Member since 11/08 8 total posts
Name:
bel
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NEED HELP!!! PLEASE
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Posted 11/1/08 10:36 PM  |
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Stacey1403
Where it all began....
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Re: NEED HELP!!! PLEASE
Have you tried counseling?
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| Posted 11/1/08 10:38 PM |
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gottaluvmusik
Just the 4 of us
Member since 12/06 3554 total posts
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Andrea
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Re: NEED HELP!!! PLEASE
 I am sorry this is happening. Counseling has always been good for dh and I when times are rough... I would give it a try. If you want to talk about it FM me
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| Posted 11/1/08 10:39 PM |
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bella28
LIF Zygote
Member since 11/08 8 total posts
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bel
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Re: NEED HELP!!! PLEASE
he doesnt want to do any of that if we have to do that then the marriage is over in his eyes..., i cant really blame him b/c his parents relationship is not great!!!!! so that is all that he knows but i am ssooo not used to that
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| Posted 11/1/08 10:52 PM |
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2BEANS
wow time is going fast.
Member since 9/07 16106 total posts
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Tina
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Re: NEED HELP!!! PLEASE
Posted by bella28
he doesnt want to do any of that if we have to do that then the marriage is over in his eyes..., i cant really blame him b/c his parents relationship is not great!!!!! so that is all that he knows but i am ssooo not used to that
He needs to realize that sometimes a third person mediating the situation can help bring light to the situation that neither side is seeing.
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| Posted 11/1/08 10:54 PM |
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LoriH
There's no place like home
Member since 8/07 4110 total posts
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Lori
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Re: NEED HELP!!! PLEASE
Posted by bella28
he doesn't want to do any of that if we have to do that then the marriage is over in his eyes..., i cant really blame him b/c his parents relationship is not great!!!!! so that is all that he knows but i am ssooo not used to that
Unfortunately, sometimes it is necessary to have a neutral third party as a mediator to aid in the communication. If he is unwilling to do this to help save your marriage, you need to do what is right for you and your children.
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| Posted 11/1/08 11:08 PM |
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gottaluvmusik
Just the 4 of us
Member since 12/06 3554 total posts
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Andrea
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Re: NEED HELP!!! PLEASE
Could you say to him.... What do YOU think we should do? IF you do not want to do therapy what is your solution
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| Posted 11/2/08 12:37 AM |
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