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Lucky09
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So I will be 16 weeks on Friday...
And I still haven't told my boss that I am pregnant.
I am really nervous to say anything because she actually took one of my responsibilities away because I "might" get pregnant, and she has made some negative comments to me about others who have taken sick time, etc.
I'm scared...
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MarisaK
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Re: So I will be 16 weeks on Friday...
Don't be scared - you didn't do anything wrong - and she can't legally take anything away from you because you're pregnant !! - Do you have an HR department? I'd suggest discussing things with them before telling your boss ..........it may help.
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| Posted 9/8/08 3:42 PM |
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hmm8191
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Re: So I will be 16 weeks on Friday...
Posted by MarisaK
Don't be scared - you didn't do anything wrong - and she can't legally take anything away from you because you're pregnant !! - Do you have an HR department? I'd suggest discussing things with them before telling your boss ..........it may help.
VERY good advice!! I couldn't agree more!
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| Posted 9/8/08 3:43 PM |
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SweetTooth
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Re: So I will be 16 weeks on Friday...
Posted by Lucky09
And I still haven't told my boss that I am pregnant.
I am really nervous to say anything because she actually took one of my responsibilities away because I "might" get pregnant, and she has made some negative comments to me about others who have taken sick time, etc.
I'm scared...
What she did is illegal, she can't take responsibilies away because you might get pregnant, or because you are pregnant. I agree with the others, talk to HR firs.
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| Posted 9/8/08 4:02 PM |
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Re: So I will be 16 weeks on Friday...
I totally agree, you cant be fired, its illegal, dont be scared, Just ask to speak to her and tell her
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| Posted 9/8/08 4:02 PM |
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Lucky09
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Re: So I will be 16 weeks on Friday...
I know I won't be fired, but I know I will be "talked about" behind my back.
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| Posted 9/8/08 4:10 PM |
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Re: So I will be 16 weeks on Friday...
I'm 16 wks tomorrow and I haven't told work. It's a personal choice, tell them when you're ready...
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| Posted 9/8/08 4:23 PM |
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randella
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Re: So I will be 16 weeks on Friday...
Posted by Lucky09
I know I won't be fired, but I know I will be "talked about" behind my back.
I know that feeling-- while I left my full time job almost a year ago... Now, I work freelance... I felt that that would be the case when I got pregnant. People do talk about you if you have kids and "need to leave at 5". It's disgusting..
Just bite the bullet and do it when you are ready.
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| Posted 9/8/08 4:25 PM |
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