Update - Still BFN!

Thanks for all the FMs and checking up on me - I really appreciate it - and thanks for recommending those dollar tests - they are great!!! And sooooo cheap!!!



No AF today - I am supposed to get it today - but still BFN.

I feel really awful still - so PMS - this month was very painful and weird - I'm thinking of having a checkup with my OBGYN just to discuss this with her - especially if it happens again next month...

So funny - I'll be honest - I thought I was going to be disappointed this month - but I'm not. Now I can go back to my original plan of trying early next year. I am scheduled to get a tat in October, and am happy I can do that now!

I also want to lose 10 more lbs before TTC

I'm curious for those who may be able to answer - my friend keeps asking me why I was spotting. I said maybe it was O - I know its possible to O late in your cycle - can you do it a week before AF is due?

Thanks ladies!

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I would always get spotting (brown) right before af would show, I knew I was pregnant when i didnt get it that month

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Liza, I found this for you..it has some interesting info about spotting.....

GL to you!

When is Spotting Good or Bad

Many women experience spotting at some point during their cycle, be in after the major bleeding period, in the middle or days before their period is due. There are times when it’s perfectly normal to spot, and there are times when spotting is an indication of something wrong, be it minor or major.

First, let’s define “spotting”. Spotting is when a bit of blood is passed through the vagina. Normally it doesn’t reach the underwear, but rather is swiped with toilet paper after a bowel movement or urination. The blood can be pink-tinged mucus, rusty brown or bright red. Spotting can be a one-time occurrence, or it can last for several hours or even several days. Spotting does NOT define the first day of menstruation. The first day of menstruation should always be the first day of actual bleeding.

“Normal” Spotting

Normal spotting is what may occur at the very end of your bleeding days. A day or two of spotting after 3 to 5 days of “bleeding” is normal, and just the end of the bleeding period.

Spotting that occurs in the middle of your cycle or spotting that occurs some ten to fourteen days prior to the start of the next cycle is normal too. This spotting may occur during ovulation. Seeing a spot of blood during ovulation is considered an excellent fertility sign. It is thought that mid-cycle spotting occurs for one of two reasons. First reason is possibly that when the egg bursts through the follicle, a little bleeding may occur. This blood will then make its way out and show up as “spotting”. Or, during ovulation, the level of estrogens rise, and this sometimes prompts the uterus to shed a bit of lining, which shows up in the form of “spotting.”

Spotting that occurs about a week before the cycle is due – and only lasts for less than one day – is possibly considered implantation spotting. This happens as a result of the fertilized egg burrowing into the uterine lining. Or another reason for seeing implantation spotting may be due to a slight rise in estrogen and drop in progesterone before the corpus luteum takes over the production of progesterone. The corpus luteum takes over the production when the implanted fertilized egg signals the body that pregnancy has occurred and that the lining must be maintained. Keep in mind that spotting that continues for days is not implantation spotting.

“Abnormal” Spotting

Abnormal spotting shows up at times other than the above mentioned times. Abnormal spotting lasts for days. It’s abnormal to spot days before your menstrual cycle is due. The causes of abnormal spotting vary.

One common cause of spotting several days before the menstrual cycle is due is low progesterone. It’s the hormone progesterone that helps to maintain the uterine lining for pregnancy and when progesterone level drops, the menstrual cycle occurs. In women who are deficient in progesterone, they will see spotting several days to a week before their cycle is due. This can also cause minor infertility and early miscarriage.

Another reason spotting may occur could be uterine fibroids, which are fairly harmless, but need to be kept an eye on. Endometriosis, birth control pills are a few other reasons spotting may occur. The most harmful reasons for spotting are possible sexually transmitted diseases and some cancers.

It is advisable if you have re-occurring spotting each month to have your healthcare provider to exam you, just to rule out possible harmful reasons for it and to help you to deal with and/or cure the reasons behind the spotting.

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I'm curious for those who may be able to answer - my friend keeps asking me why I was spotting. I said maybe it was O - I know its possible to O late in your cycle - can you do it a week before AF is due?

Thanks ladies!

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I have had months where I spotted when I Oed. It usually is concurren with a cyst for me.

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Thanks ladies! i guess I'll keep track of what happens in the next few months!

Can't wait to provide you all with answers to all of your newborn questions soon!!!