OK....so I am changing my name on here to

CLUELESS

My DH and I went out to his dad's for the weekend last night. Then I get a call from my nurse to tell me I need to come back to NJ for an ultrasound and bloodwork tomorrow (Sunday). I knew this was a possibility. So I am back home and my DH is out on LI.

Here's the thing - I am so embarrassed - NO ONE at my doctor's office ever told me when / if we should BD (we are doing an IUI cycle). How dumb is that! Now, I'm reading online that we should be to get DH's count up - until 2 days before the IUI Somebody help me..I am so new to this....there is so much info on the web that I don't know where to start.

When I see my dr. again I am going to request a new nurse. The one I deal with never gives me enough info and I am just not happy with her...

So now DH is out east - after my ultrasound tomorrow he may be coming home if we are doing the IUI Monday. I'm just p*ssed because we could have been BDing all along and ...nothing.

Re: OK....so I am changing my name on here to

dont worry about it. Everyone is different, but you should tell him to ejaculate tonight. For MF, often the count is higher with less time in between ejacs. Sorry you cant be with him for this project, but it wont effect the outcome