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i have not talk to a "friend" in about 6 months LONG story short.... she keeps calling me to talk and why i am not there for her when she needs me(kids realated) i told her after the things she said to me i was done with her.... fast forward every month one call comes in from her that i do not answer... we tonight i saw the missed call and for some STUIPED reason i called her back.. well mostly to say to stop calling me i do not want the DRAMA in my life... then because of the way she is she threw in my face how oh if you only new that keith cheated on you so many times he told every body ummmmm not only did i know what and where he was because we kept in touch like that but she had to say something so hurtful and untrue because i will not help her and be there for her to help her with her NIGHTMARE children.... i know it is far from the truth... she has lied so many ti,es exspecailly when someone throws the truth about her life in her face she has to say somethin 100 times meaner.... and this was a friend for 16 years i would drop everything to help her with this kids MANY of times ran there when her dh threw her threw a wall(and after i go there lied about it but would not say it) she ha d marks all over her... i could go on and on... and then the best is a week after he past she said to " i can't stand my dh i just wish he was dead already" i flipped on that. heck i will not lie me and keith had our fair share of problems(money and stuff normal people go threw) but NEVER IN A MILLION YEARS would i have said some thing like that..... ok i am sorry this is so long i just need to vent before i did something i might end up getting arrested for.... thanks for listening

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thats terrible. did he cheat on you? how would she know that? and if so why bring it up now- erase her from your life.

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no i knew my husband better then he knew himself.... he did not have the heart ... he would have felt as guilty as they came..... his first wife did it to him and it nearly killed him then....... he would have told me to work it out... this was a discussion we had because of what happen to him and his ex.... he would tell me and i would tell him IF and i mean IF in the biggest way.....that we would work through it.

she is just ****** and when she gets like that she will bring up any lie to try and hurt you as she things you are hurting her... if that made sence........


when it got to hard for her to handle the kids she knew i could and i would go flying over there like a idot to calm them down and make sure cops did not get involved. that is how bad it was... she is no mother to this step biys and calls them every name in the book not to mention what there birth mom did to them... they have had a ruff life and i all i gave them was support love and understanding and she knows that and that is the main reason she wants me back... not for us as friend but for me to control her boys

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That is terrible!!!!

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I'm sorry you had to deal with a friend like that... That's good you cut her out of your life, maybe you should change your number so she cant call you anymore... Is that your cell number she calls you on???

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Wow what a byatch. I would change my number so I would never hear from her again. Sorry you had to endure that...hopefully that is hte last time you will hear from her

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Janet, I would not give such a bitter, nasty, self-centered, WITCH one more minute of your time! Don't EVER answer the phone again from her, what a disgusting person, she doesn't deserve to have kids, but it sounds like she got the ones she deserved (troubled ones!)

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omgggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg
what a nasty rotten miserable be-yotch
tell me where the hell she lives....Halloween is coming..I think she needs a visit...DONT EVER EVER EVER DO HER THE JUSTICE OF ANSWERING THE PHONE FOR HER AGAIN! she should rot in hell! that is the most disgusting thing I have ever heard! I hope she feels as low as the scuz as underneath a slug today...
there...now I vented...
UGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

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That's really horrible. I'm so sorry

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thanks guys....i have thought of changing my number but way to many people i would have to contact about it.... on my cell it has a list of resrticted numbers i added it to it so i hope that works. if not i just might have to call all 100 people in my cell to let them know.

thanks for the support through that last night and the sas thing is this WITCH with a B is my dd godmother.... what was i thinking

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Sometimes people get relief out of making other people miserable. She is actually probably jealous of the relationship you and your DH had and concocted a way in her head to make it seem not so perfect.

Removing her from the situation is the best thing you can do. I hope she takes a hint and takes a hike!

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That is HORRIBLE! What is wrong w/her??? Unfortunately, misery loves company and it's obvious she is miserable!

I'm sorry you have to go through that. Cutting her out of your life would be the BEST thing!!!

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omg she has some set of balls on her, that's for damn sure. *** is going through her mind to say something like that to you?! if it were me, i would prob end up losing my job. she's a disgusting pig, with no tact, and no conscience. i agree with the other girls, i wouldn't devote one more second of your time to someone like that. erase her from your life and your memory. you are too good to be surrounded by someone so despicable.

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Are you freaking kidding me!??!! Cut her out of your life ASAP!!!!! Dont go through the hassle of changing your # - just never answer when she calls and eventually she should get the hint. You do NOT need someone like that in your life. How freaking disgusting can you get!!!!!!!

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Block her number from your phones, her email address from your accounts, and her memory from your mind. No one needs anyone so toxic in their life. Do NOT waste one more second of your life thinking or worrying about her.

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Posted by missus-hbradio

Cut her out of your life ASAP!!!!! Dont go through the hassle of changing your # - just never answer when she calls and eventually she should get the hint. You do NOT need someone like that in your life. How freaking disgusting can you get!!!!!!!

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I am so sorry- that was not very nice of her!

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She sounds awful! Her action is not one of a friend.

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OMG I can't BELIEVE she said that!!!

You need to CUT her out of your life permanently Janet. Never answer her calls again. Period.

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thanks everyone... i am and have been keeping away from her for over 8 months now and after last nights phone call i was tired of her trying to get me... so i picked up just to tell her to loss my number already... and all she could say some friend you are i am not your friend anymore get it through your thick skull and because i told her that she said what she said and i went off on her then hung up. i will not ever forgive her and after this post i will never remember her. thanks for the support guys.

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Posted by Smiles111

Posted by missus-hbradio

Cut her out of your life ASAP!!!!! Dont go through the hassle of changing your # - just never answer when she calls and eventually she should get the hint. You do NOT need someone like that in your life. How freaking disgusting can you get!!!!!!!

Agree!