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Would you ask your boss..

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sticklee
LIF Adult

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Stick

Would you ask your boss..

.. to write a recommendation letter for you if you were applying to graduate school?

i think he could write a great letter for me, but i'm not sure if it's acceptable to tell him that i'm even applying. we have mostly a business relationship.

thoughts?

Posted 10/19/07 8:07 AM
 
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Geraldine
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Re: Would you ask your boss..

Yes..... I would and I have......esp. if you have been there for a while......The best letters are from ref. you has established relationships with....GL

Posted 10/19/07 8:27 AM
 

robynfs
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Re: Would you ask your boss..

Absolutely!

Posted 10/19/07 8:27 AM
 

sunflowerjesss
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Jesss, duh.

Re: Would you ask your boss..

I most definitely would.

I think most employers appreciate employees going back to school as long as it doesn't interfere.

Posted 10/19/07 8:44 AM
 

sticklee
LIF Adult

Member since 8/06

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Stick

Re: Would you ask your boss..

this would be a full-time program.. so by asking him to write it, i'm also telling him that i want to quit.. no? is it a rude request?

Posted 10/19/07 9:29 AM
 

dpli
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D

Re: Would you ask your boss..

Absolutely, particularly if the program was related to the work I do now.

It may occur to him that you will leave, but you are only applying now, not making the decision to leave or not. Cross that bridge when you get to it.

Posted 10/19/07 9:31 AM
 

seank80
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Sean

Re: Would you ask your boss..

Yes I definately would. I have asked my old boss for a letter.

Posted 10/19/07 9:32 AM
 

KrisT
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Re: Would you ask your boss..

Posted by sticklee

this would be a full-time program.. so by asking him to write it, i'm also telling him that i want to quit.. no? is it a rude request?



I am not sure if I would ask him. It's not that I think it's a rude request, but like you said, you are telling him you are quitting. I am not sure when you are starting school, but if it's not going to be until next fall, then you may potentially be out of a job a lot sooner than that. If you are starting in January, then I don't think it's so bad. Also, if you have any doubts about either being accepted into the program or whether you will go if you are accepted, then I wouldn't ask him. This is JMHO Chat Icon

Posted 10/19/07 9:39 AM
 

frosty
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Re: Would you ask your boss..

Does your boss need to know it is a full-time program to write the recommendation? Is the program somehow related to your current job?

I'm facing this dilemma because I'm considering getting a Master's degree in field outside of my current job. I don't think I'll ask my immediate boss for a recommendation, but I know I can get an excellent one from her boss, so that may be the route I go.

Posted 10/19/07 10:54 AM
 

freckles
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Re: Would you ask your boss..

Absolutely!
Especially if your boss is fond of your work and will give a great recommendation...it will go far!

Posted 10/19/07 12:05 PM
 
 

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