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DebG
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2b or not 2be
a clique?
I don't care. The argument can stand but I have my friends and I stick by them, really...wha's the harm in that.
I have people on here that I have been friends with since 2002/2003/2004 and on. Why do people look down upon those that are close friends? why the need to catergorize people with negative terms such as clique?
I love ya ladies and gents
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BaroqueMama
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Re: 2b or not 2be
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| Posted 9/14/07 11:48 PM |
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Marcie
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Re: 2b or not 2be
Who gives a crap whatever anyone else thinks.
If you are happy then that is all that matters 
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| Posted 9/14/07 11:48 PM |
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DebG
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Re: 2b or not 2be
Marcie- How you been?
Rach- you livin in St james again?
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| Posted 9/14/07 11:50 PM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: 2b or not 2be
the only clique that matters  Image Attachment(s):
Message edited 9/14/2007 11:51:59 PM.
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| Posted 9/14/07 11:51 PM |
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BaroqueMama
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Re: 2b or not 2be
Posted by DebG
Rach- you livin in St james again?
I wish We're all the way out on the North Fork right now while we search for a house that we actually want to buy. No such luck at the moment
How's Florida? How's Darren doing? And JAG????
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| Posted 9/14/07 11:51 PM |
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HoneyBadger
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Re: 2b or not 2be
I don't think there's any harm in having a close knit group of friends or sticking by them. Nor would I think anyone would look down upon that.
I've met some wonderful people from this site and LIW. I value their friendship and would (and have) stood up for them in a heartbeat. As a friend I think that's somewhat expected.
I think when groups of people start acting as though they're above others or seem to be acting in a harsh way towards others that aren't in the circle of friends, then term "clique" comes into play.
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| Posted 9/14/07 11:53 PM |
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Tany
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Re: 2b or not 2be
you can be whatever your heart desires
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| Posted 9/14/07 11:53 PM |
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HoneyBadger
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Re: 2b or not 2be
Posted by prncss
We're all the way out on the North Fork right now while we search for a house that we actually want to buy.
I'd gladly trade places with you. It's beautiful out there.
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dm24angel
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Re: 2b or not 2be
Honestly with all that is your life Deb, do you really care?
Cliques it may be , honestly I think there are, but it doesnt have to be a negative.
I think when one picks on another its sad, but I think we are or should all be above that , someone like you shows that theres more to life then this right?
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DebG
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Re: 2b or not 2be
We are all doing AOK.
Hoping to make it back to St James in spring/ummer of next year.
I love that town and wish I could live there
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| Posted 9/14/07 11:55 PM |
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DebG
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Re: 2b or not 2be
Posted by dm24angel
Honestly with all that is your life Deb, do you really care?
Cliques it may be , honestly I think there are, but it doesnt have to be a negative.
I think when one picks on another its sad, but I think we are or should all be above that , someone like you shows that theres more to life then this right?
I think thats my pojnt. Cliques happen!
How are you donna? the little one? dh?
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BaroqueMama
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Re: 2b or not 2be
Posted by DebG
We are all doing AOK.
Hoping to make it back to St James in spring/ummer of next year.
I love that town and wish I could live there
I would love to live there again, but I just don't think it'd be wise since all of JT's family is there and we don't have any contact with them anymore. It's for the best. Plus, I work in Smithtown, and I don't think I'd want to bump into any kids in the stores on Saturdays when I have old, smeared make-up on my face and my hair in a nest
But when you make it up here, I'd love to see you
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Marcie
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Re: 2b or not 2be
Posted by DebG
Marcie- How you been?
I am good - how are you??
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| Posted 9/14/07 11:58 PM |
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dm24angel
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Re: 2b or not 2be
Posted by DebG
Posted by dm24angel
Honestly with all that is your life Deb, do you really care?
Cliques it may be , honestly I think there are, but it doesnt have to be a negative.
I think when one picks on another its sad, but I think we are or should all be above that , someone like you shows that theres more to life then this right?
I think thats my pojnt. Cliques happen!
How are you donna? the little one? dh?
We are very good Thanks. The little one is a handful but Mama loves him more then Life. Dh is a handful too. 
I am STILL drooling over your DMB thread!
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DebG
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Re: 2b or not 2be
I am getting ready to pla my NY trip and hope to see a TON of lif'ers there in 2009!
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FeliciaDP
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Re: 2b or not 2be
Posted by DebG
a clique?
I don't care. The argument can stand but I have my friends and I stick by them, really...wha's the harm in that.
I have people on here that I have been friends with since 2002/2003/2004 and on. Why do people look down upon those that are close friends? why the need to catergorize people with negative terms such as clique?
I love ya ladies and gents
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| Posted 9/15/07 12:00 AM |
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Gertyrae
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Re: 2b or not 2be
I have to agree with Donna...Cliques are petty and childish theories.
After all you have been through, Deb, it's probably a moot point.
Besides, I don't think most people gang up on others...there are a few who may do that, but really who cares.
It is the internet after all...
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| Posted 9/15/07 12:00 AM |
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DebG
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Re: 2b or not 2be
Posted by Gertyrae
It is the internet after all...
I think cause for some of us, it's not "just the internet"
For the most point, I have a different point of view than most. I argue for, I argue against but for the most part I argue for friends.
Things happen and life changes and all I have is those I love
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