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So it's 12 midnight & I have NO idea where DH is...............UPDATE at 1:30 AM

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BikerGrl
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So it's 12 midnight & I have NO idea where DH is...............UPDATE at 1:30 AM

.......I DO know that last night he decided to tell me he was having dinner with an old college friend instead of going to one of our best friends 50th Bday party. I was abit annoyed, but he hasn't seen him in a while, so I sort of let it go.


WELL......it's 12 midnight, I am home & he is not answering his phone nor is there a note.............dinner could not be 5 FREAKING hours could it?!!!!!

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UPDATE*************

Let me preface this by saying we live in a basement apartment & our AC is the window that looks out front so I can not see out there or hear anything!!!!

It is now 1:30 AM. SOMETHING said to look outside. There they are sitting in front of the houseChat Icon

I just freaked out and ask why the HELL he hasn't answered his phone. He forgot it at work he says.


COULD YOU HAVE AT LEAST COME IN TO SAY YOU WERE HOME
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Message edited 7/15/2007 1:33:36 AM.

Posted 7/15/07 12:05 AM
 
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DebG
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Re: So it's 12 midnight & I have NO idea where DH is...............

UGH- How frustrating...it's one thing to be out this late but to not be answering your phone, as my hubby would say, now that's just disrespectfulChat Icon

Posted 7/15/07 12:19 AM
 

BikerGrl
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Re: So it's 12 midnight & I have NO idea where DH is...............

Yeah.......I am currently at the FUMING stageChat Icon ..............

Posted 7/15/07 12:40 AM
 

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Re: So it's 12 midnight & I have NO idea where DH is...............

I don't blame you. That just is annoying! At least just answer the phone and say, hey, I'll be home in x amount of hours!

Posted 7/15/07 12:41 AM
 

BikerGrl
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Re: So it's 12 midnight & I have NO idea where DH is...............

Exactly what I am thinking Bonnie-Jean!!

At least if he would say "Hey we're at the bar.........I will be a while, don't wait up............."

Posted 7/15/07 12:43 AM
 

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Re: So it's 12 midnight & I have NO idea where DH is...............

I've been there Chat Icon

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Posted 7/15/07 12:44 AM
 

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Re: So it's 12 midnight & I have NO idea where DH is...............

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I hope you hear from him soon

Posted 7/15/07 12:46 AM
 

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Posted 7/15/07 12:50 AM
 

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Re: So it's 12 midnight & I have NO idea where DH is...............

Any news yet? I hate when my DH does this. Sooo not nice.

Posted 7/15/07 1:13 AM
 

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Posted 7/15/07 1:18 AM
 

BikerGrl
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Re: So it's 12 midnight & I have NO idea where DH is...............

Posted by Chai77

Any news yet? I hate when my DH does this. Sooo not nice.




NoChat Icon ....he is still not answering his phoneChat Icon

I am so tired, but can't even sleep now if I wanted and I have to get up for work @ 7:30AMChat Icon

Posted 7/15/07 1:24 AM
 

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Re: So it's 12 midnight & I have NO idea where DH is...............

Posted by ValR

Posted by Chai77

Any news yet? I hate when my DH does this. Sooo not nice.




NoChat Icon ....he is still not answering his phoneChat Icon

I am so tired, but can't even sleep now if I wanted and I have to get up for work @ 7:30AMChat Icon



I hear you. I'm sure he's just lost track of time or is somewhere loud and can't hear his phone ringing. Or maybe his phone ran out of battery. I'm the same way too though, can't fall asleep until I at least know where he is. Chat Icon

Posted 7/15/07 1:33 AM
 

Jesaroo
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Re: So it's 12 midnight & I have NO idea where DH is...............UPDATE at 1:30 AM

i get pizzed when dh doesnt answer me too.
he could have called from his friends phone!!!!!

but at least he didnt get hoem too late.

Posted 7/15/07 1:38 AM
 

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Re: So it's 12 midnight & I have NO idea where DH is...............UPDATE at 1:30 AM

Well, I'm glad he's home... but JEEZ, sometimes they have NO COMMON SENSE whatsoever!!!!!!!!!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon to you! i hope you get some sleep!!

Posted 7/15/07 1:40 AM
 

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Re: So it's 12 midnight & I have NO idea where DH is...............UPDATE at 1:30 AM

We did not have cellphones when we first got married (no one really had them) and my dh would stay out and I could not get ahold of him. I know exactly what you went through!
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Posted 7/15/07 9:26 AM
 

BikerGrl
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Re: So it's 12 midnight & I have NO idea where DH is...............UPDATE at 1:30 AM

He says he forgot his cell phone at work. I said, hey your buddy had a phone & I KNOW there is a payphone in tha bar........

His answer?

"Oh if I called I thought I would wake you."

OK.......so instead it's better to have no idea where you are then to be woken?Chat Icon He knows m ewell enough to know I wasn't sleeping......he was making up lame excusesChat Icon


I am still so angry cause all he could say was how he figured he would wake me & then I would get mad.

I KNOW that is BS......he just was inconsiderate & won't admit itChat Icon

Posted 7/15/07 10:51 AM
 

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Re: So it's 12 midnight & I have NO idea where DH is...............UPDATE at 1:30 AM

I am so sorry that happened.Chat Icon

Posted 7/15/07 11:12 AM
 

Jesaroo
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Re: So it's 12 midnight & I have NO idea where DH is...............UPDATE at 1:30 AM

Posted by ValR

He says he forgot his cell phone at work. I said, hey your buddy had a phone & I KNOW there is a payphone in tha bar........

His answer?

"Oh if I called I thought I would wake you."

OK.......so instead it's better to have no idea where you are then to be woken?Chat Icon He knows m ewell enough to know I wasn't sleeping......he was making up lame excusesChat Icon


I am still so angry cause all he could say was how he figured he would wake me & then I would get mad.

I KNOW that is BS......he just was inconsiderate & won't admit itChat Icon



he may be being honest. i've opted NOT to call dh onm quite a few occassions because i didn't want to wake him.

Posted 7/15/07 10:43 PM
 

BikerGrl
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It's not the destination....it's the journey!

Re: So it's 12 midnight & I have NO idea where DH is...............UPDATE at 1:30 AM

Posted by Jesaroo

Posted by ValR

He says he forgot his cell phone at work. I said, hey your buddy had a phone & I KNOW there is a payphone in tha bar........

His answer?

"Oh if I called I thought I would wake you."

OK.......so instead it's better to have no idea where you are then to be woken?Chat Icon He knows m ewell enough to know I wasn't sleeping......he was making up lame excusesChat Icon


I am still so angry cause all he could say was how he figured he would wake me & then I would get mad.

I KNOW that is BS......he just was inconsiderate & won't admit itChat Icon



he may be being honest. i've opted NOT to call dh onm quite a few occassions because i didn't want to wake him.




Possible yes.......BUT on several other occasions in similar situations, I have ALWAYS told him if I am unaware he is running late I would rather the phone call and be woken.

In my case last night I couln't even get to sleepChat Icon .......and he KNOWS this is how I am!!!!!

Anyhow........things are mostly OK now.....he did apologize......and I am SURE he gets my point now!!!

Thanks for checking in!

Posted 7/15/07 11:07 PM
 
 

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