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what is wrong with this mother???
O my Mom was telling me that she was at her neighbors last week and this woman has 14 yr old twin boy and girl and her and her recently seperated and he is living with some woman ....ooh I should mention that the father of these twins is 64 and the mother is 57 and they both have medical issues ..the father has emphazema and and breathing machine and the mom is really frail
Anyway the son is very abusive to his mom and the daughter is already having sex......anyway my mom and her neighbor are just talking and the son comes home in a mood going in and out of the house and then he breaks the lock of his sisters room and he starts screaming WHY ARE YOUR PANTS DOWN????her boyfriend was in the room also
so my mom is so embarassed and her neighbor turns to the son and tells him he cant just break into his sisters room like that
needless to say the boyfriend and her brother have a fight and my mom goes home.
WHY WOULD YOU ALLOW YOUR 14YR OLD TO HAVE SEX IN HER BEDROOM ???WHY?WHY??
Message edited 9/26/2005 9:41:10 AM.
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05mommy09
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Re: what is wrong with this mother???
why would you allow your 14yr old daughter to have a boy in her room to begin w/?
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Re: what is wrong with this mother???
Posted by Princessmaris
why would you allow your 14yr old daughter to have a boy in her room to begin w/?
thats what I am saying
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| Posted 9/26/05 9:23 AM |
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Redhead
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Re: what is wrong with this mother???
I thnk this is more of a family problem and not just the mother...
sad
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| Posted 9/26/05 9:25 AM |
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nov04libride
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Re: what is wrong with this mother???
Posted by MamaNDaddyof2
O my Mom was telling me that she was at her neighbors last week and this woman has 14 yr old twin boy and girl and her and her recently seperated and he is living with some woman ....ooh I should mention that the father of these twins is 64 and the mother is 57
Why is the age of the parents relevant? Do you thinking having them when she was 43 makes her an inept mother? There are definitely issues there, but I don't know that the mother's age has anything to do with them.
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Re: what is wrong with this mother???
Posted by nov04libride
Posted by MamaNDaddyof2
O my Mom was telling me that she was at her neighbors last week and this woman has 14 yr old twin boy and girl and her and her recently seperated and he is living with some woman ....ooh I should mention that the father of these twins is 64 and the mother is 57
Why is the age of the parents relevant? Do you thinking having them when she was 43 makes her an inept mother? There are definitely issues there, but I don't know that the mother's age has anything to do with them.
I meant to say that her son is abusing her and she isnt 30 she is almost 60yrs old and she doesnt need to be abused
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Redhead
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Re: what is wrong with this mother???
Posted by MamaNDaddyof2
Posted by nov04libride
Posted by MamaNDaddyof2
O my Mom was telling me that she was at her neighbors last week and this woman has 14 yr old twin boy and girl and her and her recently seperated and he is living with some woman ....ooh I should mention that the father of these twins is 64 and the mother is 57
Why is the age of the parents relevant? Do you thinking having them when she was 43 makes her an inept mother? There are definitely issues there, but I don't know that the mother's age has anything to do with them.
I meant to say that her son is abusing her and she isnt 30 she is almost 60yrs old and she doesnt need to be abused
true...but what about the FATHER?
Doesn't he share some big blame in the stupidity of his children?
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Re: what is wrong with this mother???
the father just recently left her(less than 4 or 5 months) and is ALREADY living with a woman and told her that he cant take the son
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Redhead
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Re: what is wrong with this mother???
Posted by MamaNDaddyof2
the father just recently left her(less than 4 or 5 months) and is ALREADY living with a woman and told her that he cant take the son
well then i would really be blaming HIM more
Sad when parents can't conrtol their kids
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MrsJ
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Re: what is wrong with this mother???
Posted by Princessmaris
why would you allow your 14yr old daughter to have a boy in her room to begin w/?
Exactly! I was never allowed that! Even when I was 18 the door had to be open IF I was even allowed to have someone in there (a guy).
Someone should call CPS.
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| Posted 9/26/05 9:42 AM |
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Re: what is wrong with this mother???
Posted by Redhead
Posted by MamaNDaddyof2
the father just recently left her(less than 4 or 5 months) and is ALREADY living with a woman and told her that he cant take the son
well then i would really be blaming HIM more
Sad when parents can't conrtol their kids
I totally agree
I cant stand when parents let their little ones kick or hit them and then just brush it off like it was no big deal....my SIL allows her 4 boys to abuse her and it makes me turn Red
Her oldest who is going to be 11 is over 100lbs and he really hurts her now!!! It really makes me mad
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Redhead
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Re: what is wrong with this mother???
my SIL allows her 4 boys to abuse her and it makes me turn Red
Her oldest who is going to be 11 is over 100lbs and he really hurts her now!!! It really makes me mad
See i just can't see how this actually happens 
How does a 4 or even an 11 year old do this????
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her 11 yr old hits her and tehn it starts a chain reaction....then her 7 year old hits her then the 3 yr old and now the 1 1/2 year old hits her when he wants something and she tries to say no
and her husband works like 15 hour days so he is no help at all (even when he is home)
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Re: what is wrong with this mother???
Posted by MamaNDaddyof2
her 11 yr old hits her and tehn it starts a chain reaction....then her 7 year old hits her then the 3 yr old and now the 1 1/2 year old hits her when he wants something and she tries to say no
and her husband works like 15 hour days so he is no help at all (even when he is home)
She needs to call Supper Nanny!!!
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Redhead
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Re: what is wrong with this mother???
Posted by MamaNDaddyof2
her 11 yr old hits her and tehn it starts a chain reaction....then her 7 year old hits her then the 3 yr old and now the 1 1/2 year old hits her when he wants something and she tries to say no
and her husband works like 15 hour days so he is no help at all (even when he is home)
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Re: what is wrong with this mother???
I will be in jail...I say this to DH all the time.
Over my dead body will one of my children lift a hand or curse at me! I may go to jail for beating there butts...but I will be the only woman in jail happy about it!
It's a shame for the children. These kids will be growing up not knowing any better...having TERRIBLE anger issues...and never be happy content adults...so what doe sthat mean?
Society has to pick up after them.
Make me angry at the parents.
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Re: what is wrong with this mother???
well they hide behind the technical terms such as
"my son has ADD or ADHD and Anger Management issues"
My SIL spoils her boys rotten I mean they get an expensive toy everyday even when they are Really bad They are constantly being rewarded for their Horrible behavior
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