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MrsMerlot
Unconditional Love
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From Z100 this morning....Donors...w/poll
This is more of a 'fun' poll and while I respect the privacy of others, and know this is a sensitive topic, let's try to keep this light-hearted, and more in the realm of "what if" rather than "it actually did...."
KWIM?
What would be your reaction if you found out that your SO was a sperm donor, and had already done it, but didn't tell you until afterwards?
ETS: Thanks to Deb for asking.
This would be WHILE the two of you were together.
Message edited 5/16/2007 10:41:45 AM.
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Shorty
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Re: From Z100 this morning....Donors...w/poll
I'd be so mad.
I want to be the only bearer of his biological children.
I'm also a spoiled b@#ch, so that could have something to do with it. 
eta: not that it could ever be possible...he was practically still breastfeeding when I met him. 
Message edited 5/16/2007 10:34:16 AM.
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| Posted 5/16/07 10:27 AM |
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DebG
Pick a cause & stand up for it
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The cure IS worse!
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Re: From Z100 this morning....Donors...w/poll
Did he do it before he met me, after we met? after we got married?
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| Posted 5/16/07 10:28 AM |
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JennZ
MY LIFE!!
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Re: From Z100 this morning....Donors...w/poll
Honestly I dont think I would care, as long as it wasnt in my back yard. If it was in his past so what. Now I wouldnt care for it but the past is just that...Past.
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| Posted 5/16/07 10:29 AM |
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baghag
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Re: From Z100 this morning....Donors...w/poll
Posted by Shorty
I'd be so mad.
I want to be the only bearer of his biological children.
I'm also a spoiled b@#ch, so that could have something to do with it.
Agreed.
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| Posted 5/16/07 10:30 AM |
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Stacey1403
Where it all began....
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Re: From Z100 this morning....Donors...w/poll
I'll admit it would bother me, but I would have no control over it since it would have been before we had been together. Now if he did it while we were married without my input I would be super pizzed
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| Posted 5/16/07 10:31 AM |
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Ophelia
she's baaccckkkk ;)
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remember, when Gulliver traveled....
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Re: From Z100 this morning....Donors...w/poll
It would depend on how he "donated" it. LOL
actually, if it meant someone having a child who otherwise couldnt', and I'd never have to "know" them...I don't think I'd care.
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| Posted 5/16/07 10:33 AM |
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SweetTooth
I'm a tired mommy!
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Re: From Z100 this morning....Donors...w/poll
It would be a little weird, but I dont know if I would freak out.
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| Posted 5/16/07 10:58 AM |
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KvsGrl
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Re: From Z100 this morning....Donors...w/poll
Probably freak 
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| Posted 5/16/07 11:05 AM |
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sunflowerjesss
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Re: From Z100 this morning....Donors...w/poll
Posted by KvsGrl
Probably freak
Me too...
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| Posted 5/16/07 11:09 AM |
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nrthshgrl
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Re: From Z100 this morning....Donors...w/poll
Without question, this topic would deserve a conversation - even if that conversation was "I decided to donate sperm to ..."
Ultimately it's his decision but that would mean that my kids have half-siblings somewhere.
He knows that before we were married I offered to donate my eggs to 2 of my best friends that went through IF issues. It wasn't necessary to do but he's aware the offer was on the table.
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| Posted 5/16/07 11:27 AM |
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kerrycec03
Mom of 2 beautiful boys!!
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Re: From Z100 this morning....Donors...w/poll
did he get paid? We need the money.
jk, I would probably be upset.
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| Posted 5/16/07 11:29 AM |
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TheLorax
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Re: From Z100 this morning....Donors...w/poll
I would be fine that he donated his sperm, but I would be upset that for some reason he didn't feel he could tell me / discuss it with me.
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| Posted 5/16/07 11:33 AM |
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SoinLove
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Re: From Z100 this morning....Donors...w/poll
Posted by SweetTooth
It would be a little weird, but I dont know if I would freak out.
I agree
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| Posted 5/16/07 11:36 AM |
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jandt2006
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Re: From Z100 this morning....Donors...w/poll
i would probably be weirded out but if it was to help someone who really wanted a child and couldn't conceive then it would be worth it. (through a reputal company only though)
would u ladies ever donate?
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| Posted 5/16/07 10:22 PM |
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Libragal07
Loving Summer.....
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Re: From Z100 this morning....Donors...w/poll
Posted by SoinLove
Posted by SweetTooth
It would be a little weird, but I dont know if I would freak out.
I agree
same here
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| Posted 5/16/07 10:24 PM |
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DebG
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Re: From Z100 this morning....Donors...w/poll
Agh, since we are together, I am not loving that he did it this route. But what's done is done 
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| Posted 5/16/07 10:25 PM |
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johnsae
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Re: From Z100 this morning....Donors...w/poll
I would freak out. That's just weird.
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| Posted 5/16/07 10:25 PM |
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Re: From Z100 this morning....Donors...w/poll
If he did it while we were married and didn't tell me, that would be an indication that something is majorly wrong in our relationship.
If he did it before, I would expect him to have told me before we were married.
I went to college with an entire fraternity of guys who donated. I was not against the idea but the peer pressure in a situation like that was bizarre.
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| Posted 5/16/07 10:47 PM |
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GenLCSW
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Re: From Z100 this morning....Donors...w/poll
I would freak out big time!
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| Posted 5/17/07 8:32 AM |
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smdl
I love Gary too..on a plate!
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Re: From Z100 this morning....Donors...w/poll
Posted by ssdbk
If he did it while we were married and didn't tell me, that would be an indication that something is majorly wrong in our relationship.
If he did it before, I would expect him to have told me before we were married.
I agree.
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