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Yet another rude comment at work!

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Jax430
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Yet another rude comment at work!

The secretary in the main office of my school actually just asked me how much weight I've gained!!!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/17/12 8:13 AM
 
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MrsKelly
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Re: Yet another rude comment at work!

Ugh what is wrong with peopleChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/17/12 9:06 AM
 

StaceyWill
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Re: Yet another rude comment at work!

Holy crap! I don't get why people think they can say anything they want to a pregnant woman?

Posted 4/17/12 9:10 AM
 

BBin2012
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Re: Yet another rude comment at work!

Ew....my FIL asked me this same question at Easter..at the dinner table...right before I was about to dive into dessert. Chat Icon

Rude!! And who cares or what business is it of hers.

Posted 4/17/12 9:10 AM
 

bringonthebaby
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Re: Yet another rude comment at work!

What you you girls say to people when they ask rude things? I don't think I could be nice and blow it of or answer. I'd ask why they needed to know or why they think it's ok to come out and ask someone that.

Posted 4/17/12 9:17 AM
 

Jax430
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Re: Yet another rude comment at work!

Posted by bringonthebaby

What you you girls say to people when they ask rude things? I don't think I could be nice and blow it of or answer. I'd ask why they needed to know or why they think it's ok to come out and ask someone that.



I was so taken aback that I couldn't think of a good response. I just pretended that it didn't bother me, and gave an estimate. My sister said that I should have said, "the PERFECT amount."

Posted 4/17/12 9:20 AM
 

MrsRapz
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Re: Yet another rude comment at work!

wow, that's extremely rude of her!

i agree with your sister about saying "the perfect amount".

Posted 4/17/12 9:35 AM
 

jam11308

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Re: Yet another rude comment at work!

Unreal...Chat Icon

Posted 4/17/12 9:40 AM
 

BBin2012
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Re: Yet another rude comment at work!

Posted by Jax430

Posted by bringonthebaby

What you you girls say to people when they ask rude things? I don't think I could be nice and blow it of or answer. I'd ask why they needed to know or why they think it's ok to come out and ask someone that.



I was so taken aback that I couldn't think of a good response. I just pretended that it didn't bother me, and gave an estimate. My sister said that I should have said, "the PERFECT amount."



i think that's a great response!!

I said, wow I wasn't expecting that question! never ask a lady how much she weighs!

Posted 4/17/12 9:43 AM
 

Milerose
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Re: Yet another rude comment at work!

You should have said 5 lbs to be obnoxious!!!! Ppl have no clue they really don't!!!

Posted 4/17/12 9:46 AM
 

LadyH
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Re: Yet another rude comment at work!

I think people are just curious - i don't think she intended to offend.

Posted 4/17/12 9:58 AM
 

mooshyboo
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Re: Yet another rude comment at work!

some people are rude...Chat Icon

Posted 4/17/12 10:06 AM
 

Jax430
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Re: Yet another rude comment at work!

Posted by LadyH

I think people are just curious - i don't think she intended to offend.



Oh, I'm sure she didn't, but it's just a rude question to ask!

Posted 4/17/12 10:49 AM
 

BaysideForever
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Re: Yet another rude comment at work!

I went to get dessert at Easter dinner and my aunt's best friend said to me "watch it. you don't want to get gestational diabetes". Meanwhile, I hadn't even gotten to the dessert buffet table yet... and I am 22 weeks and have gained 12 pounds. Which I think is pretty normal/average. I was so Chat Icon Chat Icon when she said that because she doesn't know me or anything about how I eat, so I felt her screaming that in front of ALL the guests at the dinner table was pretty RUDE!!!

Posted 4/17/12 10:56 AM
 

lcherian
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Re: Yet another rude comment at work!

Posted by LadyH

I think people are just curious - i don't think she intended to offend.



nosey yes, but i dont think it was rude. but then again, things like that dont bother me. Chat Icon

Posted 4/17/12 11:22 AM
 
 

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