WWYD??? Need advice please

So, a good friend of my DH is pregnant with mulitples. She is due sometime in april. All is well with her and her babies, here is where I need advice.

I was looking at her registry and noticed that she has a lot of toys, but no strollers, car seats or bottles. I spoke to her about it, via email, and she said as far as the bottles go, she will wait to see what the hospital uses?? I said most hospitals use the disposable plastic bottles, not dr browns or anything. I jsut said she should look into it.

So that was a while ago and her registry still hasn't changed. Would you email her and ask her if she needs hlep? She is OOS so I can't go to BRU with her, but I know I could help her.

Would you speak to her or let it go?

Re: WWYD??? Need advice please

Let her make her own decision, if she hasn't asked for your advice, she probably doesn't want it.

Re: WWYD??? Need advice please

i would probably just let it go, only because i wouldn't want her to think that *i* think she doesn't know what she is doing. does that make sense?

it will be easy for someone to go out and get her bottles while she is in the hospital, which if she hasn't before then is where she will realize that you were right

and maybe her parents or ILs offereed to buy her the strollers or carseats and that's why they aren't on the registry?

Re: WWYD??? Need advice please

Posted by headoverheels

i would probably just let it go, only because i wouldn't want her to think that *i* think she doesn't know what she is doing. does that make sense?

it will be easy for someone to go out and get her bottles while she is in the hospital, which if she hasn't before then is where she will realize that you were right

and maybe her parents or ILs offereed to buy her the strollers or carseats and that's why they aren't on the registry?