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bikramaddict
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WR: Inviting People Who Already Said They Couldn't Come
A friend of mine asked me this question and I'm torn - so I'll ask all of you for your opinions.
She's getting married this summer and sent out STDs. Two people said when they got the STD that they couldn't come. Should she still send an invite or does that look like she's fishing for a gift?
Message edited 5/2/2007 1:59:21 PM.
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Re: WR: Inviting People Who Already Said They Couldn't Come
A little bit!
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| Posted 5/2/07 1:59 PM |
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soontobemommy
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Re: WR: Inviting People Who Already Said They Couldn't Come
Still send an invite.
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| Posted 5/2/07 2:00 PM |
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eroxgirl
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Re: WR: Inviting People Who Already Said They Couldn't Come
I'd still send the invite. Maybe things will change.
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| Posted 5/2/07 2:03 PM |
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jxnoscar
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Re: WR: Inviting People Who Already Said They Couldn't Come
I would still send a formal invitation. I do not think it is looking for a gift. It is an announcement of their marriage
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| Posted 5/2/07 2:04 PM |
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Jax430
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Re: WR: Inviting People Who Already Said They Couldn't Come
I would still send an invite to everyone who I originally intended to invite. Then again, I didn't do STDs, so I might be wrong.
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CathyB
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Re: WR: Inviting People Who Already Said They Couldn't Come
I'd send it with a little note saying something like "I know you said you had plans already, but in case they fall through we'd still love to see you!"
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| Posted 5/2/07 2:05 PM |
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Christine
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Re: WR: Inviting People Who Already Said They Couldn't Come
Posted by eroxgirl
I'd still send the invite. Maybe things will change.
I agree.
I don't think it looks like she's fishing for gifts but I think it is a little rude to imply an invite by sending a STD and not follow through with one.
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| Posted 5/2/07 2:08 PM |
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SweetTooth
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Re: WR: Inviting People Who Already Said They Couldn't Come
I would still send the invite.
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| Posted 5/2/07 2:20 PM |
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CaMacho
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Re: WR: Inviting People Who Already Said They Couldn't Come
Posted by SweetTooth
I would still send the invite.
Me too.
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| Posted 5/2/07 2:21 PM |
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baghag
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Re: WR: Inviting People Who Already Said They Couldn't Come
Posted by CathyB
I'd send it with a little note saying something like "I know you said you had plans already, but in case they fall through we'd still love to see you!"
I did the same thing. One of them was able to make it.
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| Posted 5/2/07 2:21 PM |
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zeta1996
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Re: WR: Inviting People Who Already Said They Couldn't Come
I would send an invite....if you send a save the date, then you are implying an invite will follow. I dont think it is fishing for a gift....
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| Posted 5/2/07 2:22 PM |
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evnme
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Re: WR: Inviting People Who Already Said They Couldn't Come
still send the invite.
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| Posted 5/2/07 4:44 PM |
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july06bride
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Re: WR: Inviting People Who Already Said They Couldn't Come
send the invite
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| Posted 5/2/07 5:14 PM |
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NASP09
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Re: WR: Inviting People Who Already Said They Couldn't Come
send an invite
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| Posted 5/2/07 5:27 PM |
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angnick
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Re: WR: Inviting People Who Already Said They Couldn't Come
Posted by jxnoscar
I would still send a formal invitation. I do not think it is looking for a gift. It is an announcement of their marriage
i agree
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| Posted 5/2/07 5:27 PM |
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MsMBV
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Re: WR: Inviting People Who Already Said They Couldn't Come
Posted by soontobemommy
Still send an invite.
ita,. otherwise they might be offended.
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| Posted 5/2/07 6:40 PM |
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DanaRenee
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Re: WR: Inviting People Who Already Said They Couldn't Come
I'd still send an invite. They might be offended if you dont.
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| Posted 5/2/07 8:11 PM |
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cjik
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Re: WR: Inviting People Who Already Said They Couldn't Come
I would still send an invite. Their plans may change, it just seems polite.
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| Posted 5/2/07 8:37 PM |
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alnem
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Re: WR: Inviting People Who Already Said They Couldn't Come
Posted by eroxgirl
I'd still send the invite. Maybe things will change.
i agree. since she sent the STD maybe their plans have changed and they can come now.
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| Posted 5/2/07 8:53 PM |
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