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bikramaddict
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Would This Annoy You?
A friend of mine is getting married this summer and her MOH keeps dropping the ball when it comes to bachelorette party planning so my friend asked me to take over, which I said I was happy to do. So here I am, planning away and sending out emails when the MOH emails me and says "the bride doesn't like the dinnner time you selected. please change it." What is annoying me is that the bride told the MOH to tell me, etc...rather than just telling me herself. would that bother you?
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Posted 5/23/07 11:40 AM  |
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MelToddJulia
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Re: Would This Annoy You?
I would respond and say "well since your the MOH, should you be doing this for the bride??" I was trying to be nice, tell the Bride to call or e-mail me if she has anything to say about it!!
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| Posted 5/23/07 11:42 AM |
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mtnmama
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Message edited 6/26/2009 11:19:41 AM.
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| Posted 5/23/07 11:43 AM |
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Shelly
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Re: Would This Annoy You?
Posted by MelToddJulia
I would respond and say "well since your the MOH, should you be doing this for the bride??" I was trying to be nice, tell the Bride to call or e-mail me if she has anything to say about it!!
I agree.
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| Posted 5/23/07 11:47 AM |
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KrisT
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Re: Would This Annoy You?
Yes! I hate when people pass "messages" through other people!
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| Posted 5/23/07 11:53 AM |
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KGools
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Re: Would This Annoy You?
Yes it would and I would call the bride and straighten things out with her.. for all you know the MOH is using the bride as an excuse as to why the date doesn't work for HER.
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| Posted 5/23/07 11:55 AM |
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alnem
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Re: Would This Annoy You?
Posted by cpanyc
Yes, that would annoy me.
Unless it was phrased in a manner like "I was just talking to Jane and she mentioned that she had so and so that day so maybe 7:00 would be a better time, etc."
agreed! there was definitely a better way to say that to you. tell her to do her "job" then.
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| Posted 5/23/07 1:11 PM |
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jxnoscar
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Re: Would This Annoy You?
That would annoy the hell out of me. Call the bride directly and get her take on what she wants to do.
Sound like this MOH likes the fact you are working for her.
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| Posted 5/23/07 1:12 PM |
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curliegirl
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Re: Would This Annoy You?
Sounds like the MOH doesn't like the dinner time, not the bride.
You can tell the MOH you'll gladly pass the ball BACK to her if she won't drop it AGAIN!
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| Posted 5/23/07 1:14 PM |
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nrthshgrl
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Re: Would This Annoy You?
I would reply & cc the bride to make sure the MOH isn't bs'ing.
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| Posted 5/23/07 1:36 PM |
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MrsERod
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Re: Would This Annoy You?
CALL the bride directly and confirm with her, and then:
Posted by nrthshgrl
I would reply & cc the bride
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| Posted 5/23/07 1:37 PM |
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DebG
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Re: Would This Annoy You?
Posted by curliegirl
Sounds like the MOH doesn't like the dinner time, not the bride.
You can tell the MOH you'll gladly pass the ball BACK to her if she won't drop it AGAIN!
exactly what I was thinking.
I would double check with the bride! She sounded open with you before, why would she all of a sudden start telling you things thru others.
Doesn't make sense to me.
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| Posted 5/23/07 1:39 PM |
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