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MrsMessina
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Woke up so depressed....
I found out that one of our cousins is pregnant. I feel like such a terrible person.... though I'm happy for her, I just had this "once again someone else, and not me" thought.... and I woke up feeliing terrible this morning. Why is it never my turn?
 to all of us. 
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DancinBarefoot
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| Posted 5/28/07 10:13 AM |
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Re: Woke up so depressed....
I know the feeling
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| Posted 5/28/07 11:22 AM |
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MrsMessina
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Re: Woke up so depressed....
Ok- now it's over 12 hours later and I'm still feeling the same way. I talked to DH about it but he doesn't "get it". He's with the philosophy that it will happen if and when it's supposed to... which drives me crazy b/c i'm over here with my fertility monitor and trying to chart, etc... and it's SO FRUSTRATING!!!! And all I keep thinking is soon I'll have to go to her baby shower and hear the same old, when are you guys going to have kids question... and try to just grin and deal with it.  If they only knew...
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| Posted 5/28/07 11:33 PM |
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Gertyrae
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calendargrl
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Re: Woke up so depressed....
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| Posted 5/29/07 7:59 AM |
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babyhopeful
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Re: Woke up so depressed....
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LaurenExp
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Re: Woke up so depressed....
I so know the feeling.
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| Posted 5/29/07 9:13 AM |
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CAT215
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| Posted 5/29/07 10:19 AM |
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| Posted 5/29/07 10:27 AM |
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BarefootDncr
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Re: Woke up so depressed....
I totally understand how you are feeling. I felt like: If I hear one more person ask when my husband and I were going to have a baby, I thought I would scream. Sometimes I just want to say "Its not as easy for some as it is for other's". I skip the showers now and just send a gift later. Saves me a ton of agony. Try not to stress so much (Easier said than done I know) and know that after you finish with one method of ttc there are several more to be tried. Its not over until its over.
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LIPrincess
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Re: Woke up so depressed....
I have been there and hate it. I do go to the showers but now I tell someone if they are rude enough to ask, that we have been trying its just not happening.
Message edited 5/29/2007 11:27:14 AM.
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| Posted 5/29/07 11:26 AM |
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BigB
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jai-jai
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Re: Woke up so depressed....
I feel the same way all the time.
My husband also gives me the "it will happen when its meant to be" and I know he's trying to be nice but that drives me nuts too, lol.
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| Posted 5/29/07 3:20 PM |
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jellybean78
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Re: Woke up so depressed....
First you are not a terrible person...It's totallly normal to feel that way......I have been through that many times. Hang on though because your time is coming soon
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| Posted 5/29/07 3:23 PM |
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MrsMessina
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Re: Woke up so depressed....
Thanks ladies. I really don't know what I'd do without you girls! It's so nice to have a place to come to vent and know that I'm not being judged for it. to us all!!!!
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