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pmpkn087
Life is good...
Member since 9/05 18504 total posts
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Stephanie
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Why do people...
...say stupid $hyt? As if I'm not feeling bad enough (well, I feel better becaue of you ladies  )
but, why do people have the NEED to tell me "OMG, you got so big in one day" 
ETS: Actually, I should clarify...one person wouldn't bother me, but THREE, yes THREE people have said this to me TODAY 
Message edited 6/2/2006 1:45:45 PM.
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04bride
I'm a big sister!!!
Member since 5/05 6707 total posts
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Noel
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Re: Why do people...
this happend at work yesterday i dont mind it from people i am fiendly with but one women who i dont particularly care for said it.. UGHHH
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| Posted 6/2/06 1:52 PM |
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LuvMy2Girls
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Member since 5/05 11165 total posts
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Mommy
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Re: Why do people...
cause people are rude and obnoxious and should mind their p's and q's.
I had a person say to me"wow you finally look pregnant cause you got fat!"
Wow, so when I was skinny and not pg i looked undernourished?
Whatever happened to
if you don't have anything to nice to say...
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| Posted 6/2/06 2:04 PM |
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dandr10199
Grace is growing up too fast!
Member since 10/05 11561 total posts
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Dina
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Re: Why do people...
I hated when people were rude...
Someone told me once "your belly is soooo tiny, you must be having a girl because you carry girls in your hips and butt" I wanted to slap her!
Feel Better, we have all been there.
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| Posted 6/2/06 2:16 PM |
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nferrandi
too excited for words
Member since 10/05 18538 total posts
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Nicole
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Re: Why do people...
Parents at my dance school always say "you're starting to get big"
Um yeah well I am pregnant, that might explain it.
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| Posted 6/2/06 2:18 PM |
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Re: Why do people...
Wow these comments!  I guess people just don't know what to say - some people always feel the need to say SOMETHING! 
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| Posted 6/2/06 2:21 PM |
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FeliciaDP
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Member since 5/05 18599 total posts
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Mommy
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Re: Why do people...
Oh man, people are so dumb 
My normally wonderful, loving FATHER said to me when I came back from the Bahamas .. "what the heck did you eat down there, you look like a HOUSE" (I happened to have a very loose/billowy top , but I digress..)
I was going through a major "crying phase" that day and immediately started to tear up ... he felt bad, which certainly served him right !!  (hey I told ya on the other thread, the crying stuff works like a charm  )
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| Posted 6/2/06 2:23 PM |
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Kathy116
Hey baby!
Member since 6/05 1855 total posts
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Re: Why do people...
I hate it when people do that.
My MIL should win the award for saying stuff that can hurt a pregnant woman's feelings!
When she arrived recently for my shower she said, "WOW...YOU GOT BIG".
She also said to me at 10 pm at night after I got home from dinner (lunch was the shower at 1pm), "DON'T TELL ME YOU ATE AGAIN!".
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| Posted 6/2/06 2:24 PM |
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pmpkn087
Life is good...
Member since 9/05 18504 total posts
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Stephanie
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Re: Why do people...
Posted by FeliciaDP
I was going through a major "crying phase" that day and immediately started to tear up ... he felt bad, which certainly served him right !! (hey I told ya on the other thread, the crying stuff works like a charm )
I'm sorry he said that to you, but that's really funny! I would have cried too.
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| Posted 6/2/06 4:04 PM |
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pmpkn087
Life is good...
Member since 9/05 18504 total posts
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Stephanie
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Re: Why do people...
Posted by Kathy116
She also said to me at 10 pm at night after I got home from dinner (lunch was the shower at 1pm), "DON'T TELL ME YOU ATE AGAIN!".
My brother said this to me last week. Ummmmm hello mofo....I ate breakfast at 8:00 and now I want lunch at 12. What's so wrong with that?
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| Posted 6/2/06 4:05 PM |
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GenLCSW
Baby # 3 is here!!!
Member since 7/05 21138 total posts
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Genna
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Re: Why do people...
I know...everytime I eat some idiot always says to me..."oh look, she is eating for 2" I just want to scream SHUT UP!!!
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| Posted 6/2/06 4:24 PM |
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wowcoulditbe
wow, pic is already 1 yr old!!
Member since 1/06 6689 total posts
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D
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Re: Why do people...
i am just loving the looks and up and downs they give me everyday i see people - as in "hmm.....how fat did she get??"
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| Posted 6/2/06 5:11 PM |
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pinky
Twin Moms Do Everything Twice
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Re: Why do people...
i hear it every day at work from about 10 different women "wow you got so big"
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| Posted 6/2/06 5:41 PM |
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ParentsInJune
LIF Infant
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Bethany
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Re: Why do people...
The eating comments gets on my nerves too. Sometimes my DH says things that HE finds funny, but they can really upset me if it's on a bad day. Like, "Geez, you're still hungry?"
Kiss my as$!!!!!!!
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| Posted 6/2/06 6:50 PM |
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MommyofG
just the girls
Member since 5/05 9461 total posts
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Janice
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Re: Why do people...
People can be rude. Thank goodness I am only getting the "my god your chest got so HUGE"-
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| Posted 6/2/06 8:14 PM |
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Stacey1403
Where it all began....
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Re: Why do people...
Next time anyone says anything say to them "Yes but I'm pregnant what is your excuse?"
Message edited 6/2/2006 8:34:17 PM.
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| Posted 6/2/06 8:33 PM |
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MommyofG
just the girls
Member since 5/05 9461 total posts
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Janice
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Re: Why do people...
Posted by Stacey1403
Next time anyone says anything say to them "Yes but I'm pregnant what is your excuse?"
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| Posted 6/2/06 8:46 PM |
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Diane
Hope is Contagious....catch it
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Re: Why do people...
I get this all the time at work....I just ignore them now...people need ti think before they speak
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| Posted 6/3/06 3:06 PM |
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BaroqueMama
Chase is one!
Member since 5/05 27530 total posts
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Re: Why do people...
STILL happens to me. I just called to rsvp for a bridal shower for next weekend, and my friend's mom, who is throwing it, said to me, "Well, I heard you are HUGE now, so if you can't make it, then it's ok!" I responded, "Well, if you can FIT me, then I'll be there."  Then she got the hint and apologized for how it came out.
I'm convinced people see pregnant girls as a target for all insensitive comments. They just do. And it's WRONG!
Oh, one other quick story....
My next door neighbor was walking out of the complex while I walking in and she said, "OMG! YOU ARE HUGE!" And before I could respond, God punished her because out of nowhere, she fell down I'm only laughing because she was ok, but STILL! If that's not justice, I don't know WHAT is!?
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| Posted 6/3/06 3:12 PM |
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BaroqueMama
Chase is one!
Member since 5/05 27530 total posts
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Re: Why do people...
Oh, wait, but I will add something positive....
I almost KISSED someone at work yesterday because she came up behind me and said, "Wow, you don't even look pregnant from behind!"
I told her promptly that I loved her and she was my new best friend
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| Posted 6/3/06 3:13 PM |
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dawnygirl25
Growing up soo fast..
Member since 1/06 14917 total posts
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Dawn
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Re: Why do people...
people have had the same comments to me. its so rude. I would never dream of saying half the $hit people have said to me throughout this pregnancy. GRRRR
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