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Happy1
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Why are some people so rude?
I know I am only 8 weeks but I have a little belly already and yes it may not be baby just yet and clearly I am bloated but how rude is it when someone out right tells you that?
A few aquaintances have said to me, you have a little belly but it's not baby.
How rude can people be??? 
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Posted 10/29/07 9:30 AM  |
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neener1211
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Re: Why are some people so rude?
very rude, and it does get worse. sorry they treated you that way!
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| Posted 10/29/07 9:34 AM |
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Happy1
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Re: Why are some people so rude?
I was in total and complete shock! Who says things like that?
Don't be sorry for other people's stupidity, it's not your fault. It just really sux that us pg women have to go through this 
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| Posted 10/29/07 9:39 AM |
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Re: Why are some people so rude?
I feel your pain!!! Yesterday, we went to my MIL's for lunch so my mom could visit with her before she went back home. The first words out of MILS mouth when she saw me " wow you look like sh!t....I thought pregnant women were supposed to look beautiful"
Are you kidding me?! 
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| Posted 10/29/07 9:45 AM |
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Happy1
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Re: Why are some people so rude?
Posted by Maybeababyin08
I feel your pain!!! Yesterday, we went to my MIL's for lunch so my mom could visit with her before she went back home. The first words out of MILS mouth when she saw me " wow you look like sh!t....I thought pregnant women were supposed to look beautiful"
Are you kidding me?!
Omg, are you kidding me?? How rude!!!
What is wrong with people??? 
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| Posted 10/29/07 9:46 AM |
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Leeners
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Re: Why are some people so rude?
People can be incredibly rude and as a PP said, it only gets worse. MIL's lovely boyfriend greeted me with "Hello Tubby" this weekend
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| Posted 10/29/07 10:01 AM |
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CherylWoops
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Re: Why are some people so rude?
Wow, I've heard some tactless ones, but THAT is bad! Who are these people that they feel comfortable saying that to someone? I'd be horrified. Isn't is crazy how people's brains go right to sleep when they are around a pregnant person? Like it is okay to pick apart your taste by telling you your name options are awful, telling you how "fat" you look or how "you don't even look pregnant" or other gems like that. Come on people. WE are supposed to be the absent-minded ones, right?
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| Posted 10/29/07 10:03 AM |
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Chica
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Re: Why are some people so rude?
It's so true. I just don't get it. I think they (the rude ones) must think that being pregnant magically makes us comfortable with our changing bodies and gaining weight - oh, and totally down for any fat comments/jokes.
Especially considering that us preggo ladies are more sensitive these days, you would think they would have more common sense.
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| Posted 10/29/07 10:13 AM |
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KristinasMama
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Re: Why are some people so rude?
Ugh... people are such jerks!!!!!!!!!
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| Posted 10/29/07 10:17 AM |
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MelToddJulia
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Re: Why are some people so rude?
Some people need to be smacked!
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| Posted 10/29/07 10:25 AM |
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Happy1
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Re: Why are some people so rude?
When I make comments like I'm tired or hungry to a friend of mine she always says "Already??" like it's so hard to believe that a 2 month pregnant women can't feel any pregnancy symptoms at this stage!!
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| Posted 10/29/07 10:36 AM |
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KellyDance
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Re: Why are some people so rude?
I hate people!!! That's why I told no one at work yet! They are afraid to say anything!
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| Posted 10/29/07 10:37 AM |
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KristinasMama
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Re: Why are some people so rude?
Posted by Happy1
When I make comments like I'm tired or hungry to a friend of mine she always says "Already??" like it's so hard to believe that a 2 month pregnant women can't feel any pregnancy symptoms at this stage!!
i remember this time in the PG..... and I got the SAME exact comments!
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| Posted 10/29/07 10:40 AM |
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2BEANS
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Re: Why are some people so rude?
just say "jealous?" and walk away.
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| Posted 10/29/07 10:59 AM |
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Re: Why are some people so rude?
You're joking right?
Um first of all it is the baby! It may not be the your actual Dc but it's everything that comes along with pg.
I wish I could just smack them in their heads.
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| Posted 10/29/07 11:17 AM |
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Mkr09
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Re: Why are some people so rude?
yea people are just incredibly rude. my FIL constantly makes comments when I say I am tired. Finally yesterday my MIL said "She has a reason to be tired" That is after she said she can't believe how big I've gotten in the past week. 
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| Posted 10/29/07 11:26 AM |
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Happy1
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Re: Why are some people so rude?
Posted by Cakes
You're joking right?
Um first of all it is the baby! It may not be the your actual Dc but it's everything that comes along with pg.
I wish I could just smack them in their heads.
I'm dead serious, I know it's crazy! I actually started to explain myself and stopped myself. I mean why should I??? Dude, I'm freakin pg I shouldn't have to explain WHY I look bloated???
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| Posted 10/29/07 11:37 AM |
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Ali
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Re: Why are some people so rude?
That's ridiculous. I'm so sorry! People are idiots. I'll be 13 weeks tomorrow, but I look MUCH further along. I have to hear about it everyday from everyone. It's horrible.
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| Posted 10/29/07 11:48 AM |
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Message edited 8/13/2009 11:45:10 AM.
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| Posted 10/29/07 12:41 PM |
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julybaby1
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Re: Why are some people so rude?
People never cease to amaze me anymore.
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