what would you do? repost

I'll try to keep this short::

My best friend is getting married 7/3/06 and I am one of her bridesmaids. My EDD is 6/13/06 which leaves 3 weeks in between. I am getting very worried that I will be late and not be able to be apart of the wedding. However I do not want to wait until the last minute to 'see what happens' because then it's not fair to her. Other reasons are that I will not be able to get my dress altered in time and that we are really going to be financially strapped at that time.

She did EVERYTHING for my wedding and I really wanted to try to reciprocate. I don't want to disappoint her by bailing out and I don't wanna disappoint myself either ! I'm really looking forward to her big day, I'm just afraid of my bad timing

What would you do?

Re: what would you do? repost

I would speak to her and let her know how you are feeling and of your worries and see what she thinks. Best of luck