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Tany
Becoming a different woman
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Tania
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what wins, the positve or the negatives?
when something bad happens do you only focus on the bad or do you remember the good times you had, wether with a friend, an experience?
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Posted 3/13/07 4:45 PM  |
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leighla
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Re: what wins, the positve or the negatives?
I tend to focus on the bad, but lately I've been trying to see the bright side of things.
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| Posted 3/13/07 4:47 PM |
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chikita315
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Re: what wins, the positve or the negatives?
I make a conscious effort to focus on the positive. I have an aunt who is so negative about EVERYTHING, it literally is destroying her. I won't allow that to happen.
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| Posted 3/13/07 4:49 PM |
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JP826
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Re: what wins, the positve or the negatives?
Again.. it depends on each individual situation.
Every experience I encountered, I have always learned a lesson- whether it be good or bad. I tend to always focus on that. Everything else, like all the little details wont matter in the grand scheme of things.
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| Posted 3/13/07 4:49 PM |
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Tah-wee-ZAH
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Re: what wins, the positve or the negatives?
Posted by chikita315
I make a conscious effort to focus on the positive. I have an aunt who is so negative about EVERYTHING, it literally is destroying her. I won't allow that to happen.
I agree focus on the postive.
I've seen way too many people be completely consumed with negativity in their lives. They get so so wrapped up in it it becomes what keeps them going. Sad, just sad and very unhealthy mentally.
Life's too short for that.
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| Posted 3/13/07 4:59 PM |
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Tany
Becoming a different woman
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Tania
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Re: what wins, the positve or the negatives?
Posted by chikita315
I make a conscious effort to focus on the positive. I have an aunt who is so negative about EVERYTHING, it literally is destroying her. I won't allow that to happen.
I agree with you, most definitely.
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| Posted 3/13/07 7:10 PM |
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luvsbob4603
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Re: what wins, the positve or the negatives?
the positive wins out fir me, i found out if you think positive... positive things will happen'which it has for me' But if you think negative than that's what you will have in your life.so i refuse to live my life in negative.
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| Posted 3/13/07 7:14 PM |
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MrsERod
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Re: what wins, the positve or the negatives?
Posted by Tany
when something bad happens do you only focus on the bad or do you remember the good times you had, wether with a friend, an experience?
great question
with relationships, i try to remember the good. but then the bad times and hurt come to mind, and I start to question if the good even "existed" at one point.  kwim?
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| Posted 3/13/07 7:15 PM |
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DanaRenee
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Re: what wins, the positve or the negatives?
I tend to focus on the good, and I think it works....I have very little stress and theres not too much that bothers me.  People at work make fun of me b/c this one or that one has this problem or that problem, and I just sit back and think "sheesh, I have no drama!" I assume its because I don't let too many things get under my skin
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| Posted 3/13/07 7:22 PM |
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Booklady1017
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Re: what wins, the positve or the negatives?
I used to focus more on the bad but I have been working to change that.
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| Posted 3/13/07 9:14 PM |
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Christine
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Re: what wins, the positve or the negatives?
For the most part I try to focus on the positive but I feel like it's an act a lot of the time because the negative is pretty overwhelming at times.
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| Posted 3/13/07 9:16 PM |
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