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What to send when someone dies?

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MarsB
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Martha

What to send when someone dies?

My boss' MIL just passed away and I'd like to send something, but I'm torn between flowers and food. DH and I are very friendly with my boss and his wife, so we do have a personal relationship outside of work. There will only be one service from 3-6 pm on Friday, so I'm not sure if they're having ppl over to their house. Should I send a food basket or flowers or a plant?

Posted 1/11/11 3:33 PM
 
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CouponKT
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Re: What to send when someone dies?

I say a food basket or donation to a charity. IMO, I hate flowers because they are a lot of $$ and die within a few days.

Message edited 1/11/2011 3:35:32 PM.

Posted 1/11/11 3:35 PM
 

PotofLuck06
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Re: What to send when someone dies?

How about an edible arrangement. When we had family deaths, friends and family sent us these, so we had food to put out when people came to the house between services.

Posted 1/11/11 3:37 PM
 

FrankiesGirl107
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Re: What to send when someone dies?

I would choose food over flowers. But if you did want to send flowers, I would send a plant, something that can easily continue to grow....

Posted 1/11/11 3:37 PM
 

MrsYankeeGirl72
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J

Re: What to send when someone dies?

Food basket....definitely.

Posted 1/11/11 3:38 PM
 

MrsS6510
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L

Re: What to send when someone dies?

Definitely food. Maybe have a platter of cheese and cold cuts sent from a local deli.

Posted 1/11/11 3:39 PM
 

jilliibabii
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Re: What to send when someone dies?

I always say food.

Posted 1/11/11 4:19 PM
 

heidla
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Heidi

Re: What to send when someone dies?

I always send soup. It's just a comforting food to me.

Posted 1/11/11 4:20 PM
 

greenybeans
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Re: What to send when someone dies?

I always send food.

Posted 1/11/11 4:26 PM
 

Beth
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Beth

Re: What to send when someone dies?

food

Posted 1/11/11 4:27 PM
 

MarsB
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Martha

Re: What to send when someone dies?

Food it is! At least I know it won't go to waste. Thank you for all the replies.

Posted 1/11/11 4:28 PM
 

smooney
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Re: What to send when someone dies?

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Posted 1/11/11 5:25 PM
 

debidonnamom
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Mary (MOB)

Re: What to send when someone dies?

I've started giving blank scrapbook albums, to put the cards, obit. etc. into. Mary

Posted 1/11/11 5:34 PM
 

Mrs213
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Re: What to send when someone dies?

edible arrangement I just did for a coworker...

Posted 1/11/11 9:20 PM
 

fight the future
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Rebecca

Re: What to send when someone dies?

food

Posted 1/11/11 9:26 PM
 

twinkletoes807
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Gabi

Re: What to send when someone dies?

I sent a friend a Harry and David food arrangement since she was having some of the family stay at her home. I figured it was just something they could nosh on. Chat Icon

Posted 1/11/11 9:30 PM
 

butterfly20
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Re: What to send when someone dies?

Posted by PotofLuck06

How about an edible arrangement. When we had family deaths, friends and family sent us these, so we had food to put out when people came to the house between services.



I totally agree. even if they don't have people coming over they'll still eat it.

Posted 1/11/11 9:30 PM
 

LSP2005
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Member since 5/05

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L

Re: What to send when someone dies?

I send food. You can call a local grocery store and they can deliver a roasted chicken with some sides and salads. Also Ben's has a bagel platter they can deliver.

Posted 1/11/11 9:41 PM
 
 

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