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LisaWTime for me to FLY!
 
 Member since 5/05 13199 total posts Name:Did I ever tell you that I hate people?
 | I hate how people assume... Just b/c you are a certain age and a woman, that you are a mother.
 Dh and I went out to eat yesterday, and were having such a nice time, when the host wished me a Happy Mother's Day
   
 I know it was meant to be nice, but I had to hold myself back from bursting into tears.
   
 D@mn stims!
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			| Posted 5/12/06 9:35 AM   | 
	
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Redspring is in the air
 
 Member since 11/05 2688 total posts Name:helen
 | Re: I hate how people assume... I'm sorry Lisa - it stinks, but everyone does it.  I remember about 10 years ago the gas station gave me a rose for mothers day  | 
			| Posted 5/12/06 9:39 AM   | 
	
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redstarDelay is not denial
 
 Member since 5/05 2220 total posts Name:Michelle
 | Re: I hate how people assume... I am so sorry        
 May next year be filled with the joy of motherhood !
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			| Posted 5/12/06 9:45 AM   | 
	
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mrsmckBe a big girl!
 
 Member since 5/05 4898 total posts Name:Donna
 | Re: I hate how people assume... I know....it stinks!!!!!
 Next year we'll all be wishing each other a Happy Mother's Day!!!!
 
 
 
       
 At work today I wished a woman a happy M.D. and she said "and you?"  I responded, "no not yet, but thank you anyway."
 
 It'll happen for all of us.....I just know it!!!!!
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			| Posted 5/12/06 10:07 AM   | 
	
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michele31LIF Adult
 Member since 5/05 3372 total posts Name:Michele
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			| Posted 5/12/06 10:43 AM   | 
	
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Donna1 year already!!
 
 Member since 5/05 3360 total posts Name:Donna
 | Re: I hate how people assume... Sorry Lisa 
 
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			| Posted 5/12/06 10:44 AM   | 
	
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BigBC & J are 10!
 
 Member since 6/05 5914 total posts Name:Stacey
 | Re: I hate how people assume... I know this stinks....but, I try to put a spin on this.  In many ways I am a "mother"  although I don't have any children.  I am a teacher, so I feel that I do "mother" my students, so a mother figure can take may shapes!  
 Although, I do agree that people should never assume anything!
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			| Posted 5/12/06 11:38 AM   | 
	
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dm24angelHappiness
 
 Member since 5/05 34581 total posts Name:Donna
 | Re: I hate how people assume... I was wished a happy mothers day a few times over the phone at work today and I felt the same way each time, like I wished they hadnt ASSUMED...My Bil said it to be and says that everyones a mother on mothers day...um..NO they arent, so stop ....
 So sorry Lisa this made you upset....Hang in there. We understand
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			| Posted 5/12/06 2:34 PM   | 
	
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Tah-wee-ZAHKisses
 
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 | Re: I hate how people assume... I've gotten it for years.  When I was younger everyone asked me about my mother (deceased when I was 8), what I was getting for her etc.  Seemslike that question had now morphed into a double questions about my mom and my assumed status as a mother.  | 
			| Posted 5/12/06 4:04 PM   | 
	
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TumbalinaBetter than the news!
 
 Member since 2/06 2840 total posts Name:Angela
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			| Posted 5/12/06 7:38 PM   | 
	
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rose825Best Friends
 
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			| Posted 5/12/06 8:22 PM   | 
	
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4monkeysboys will be boys =)
 Member since 9/05 7205 total posts Name::)
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			| Posted 5/12/06 10:18 PM   | 
	
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jujuWelcome to the World!
 Member since 5/05 6747 total posts Name:
 | Re: I hate how people assume...  I hear ya!
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			| Posted 5/14/06 6:15 PM   | 
	
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