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bellarina 
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 PLEASE- QUICK advice needed!!!!!! 
My BF was almost 12 weeks preggo and she called today to tell me that on the way home from work she lost the baby.   What can I do for her?  I want to send her something but don't know what.... I don't want to do flowers and I looked into pajamagram.com but didn't see anything that would be good.  Any suggestions??????????
  PS- she has a little girl that will be 2 in july.
 
    
Message edited 6/5/2006 8:45:30 PM. 
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			Posted 6/5/06 8:42 PM    | 
	
	
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bellarina 
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hello????? anyone???? I'm at a loss here! 
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			Posted 6/5/06 8:51 PM    | 
	
	
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dee7772 
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 Re: PLEASE- QUICK advice needed!!!!!! 
I honestly think the best thing you can do for her is just be a friend.  Just be there for her to cry on.  YOU can also probably give her a break and take her child out for a few hours.  
  I am really sorry for your firend.   
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			Posted 6/5/06 8:57 PM    | 
	
	
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pmpkn087 
Life is good... 
  
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I agree that you could take her child for a little bit.  How about a gc for a massage for when she feels a little better, so she can have some relaxation. 
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			Posted 6/5/06 9:06 PM    | 
	
	
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DaniRN 
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 Re: PLEASE- QUICK advice needed!!!!!! 
Oh no-is this who I think it is??  I honestly have no advice but to just be there for her-maybe cook her some meals and help out with her daughter-make her daughter cookies or something so she doesn't get too caught up in the sadness. 
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			Posted 6/5/06 9:29 PM    | 
	
	
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bellarina 
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 Re: PLEASE- QUICK advice needed!!!!!! 
Posted by DaniRN
  Oh no-is this who I think it is??  I honestly have no advice but to just be there for her-maybe cook her some meals and help out with her daughter-make her daughter cookies or something so she doesn't get too caught up in the sadness. 
 
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			Posted 6/6/06 8:30 AM    | 
	
	
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pugmama 
April already? 
  
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 Re: PLEASE- QUICK advice needed!!!!!! 
sorry for your friends loss.  I agree with others that offerring to watch the 2 year old while she gets some pampering would be great.   
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			Posted 6/6/06 9:13 AM    | 
	
	
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iffer042373 
5 weeks till I'm a big sister 
  
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 Re: PLEASE- QUICK advice needed!!!!!! 
I agree with what  everyone else is  saying   I would  get her  a GC to a nail salon for a mani and  pedicure and  take  her child out for a  while.
  I am so sorry for your friend I  know what its like to  to miscarry  its very  sad and  hard to deal with at times. 
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			Posted 6/6/06 1:00 PM    | 
	
	
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bean 
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 Re: PLEASE- QUICK advice needed!!!!!! 
A gift certificate for a mani/pedi is a great idea!  Sorry to hear this news. 
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			Posted 6/6/06 1:52 PM    | 
	
	
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