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MrsJ
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What do you do when you get blamed for something
that you shouldn't have been blamed for and people start giving you a hard time?
Let it go? Or argue your point?
Message edited 9/9/2005 10:17:54 AM.
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TheInfamousOTG
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Re: What do you do when you get blamed for something
Argue your point. I will never take the blame for someone else's mistake.
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| Posted 9/9/05 10:19 AM |
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preciouslove
I love my DS!!!
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Re: What do you do when you get blamed for something
Argue the point!
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| Posted 9/9/05 10:20 AM |
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BabyAvocado
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Re: What do you do when you get blamed for something
I will argue it to a point and then I will let it go because if people want to blame you they will find a way no matter what. There comes a point where you just have to let it go.
Hmmm.... I would be careful with this if it has to do with what I think it has to do with... 
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| Posted 9/9/05 10:23 AM |
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Re: What do you do when you get blamed for something
Argue my point
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| Posted 9/9/05 10:24 AM |
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Re: What do you do when you get blamed for something
I'd let it go. Some people always have to have the last word and they will never leave you alone. Better to tell yourself that you're being the bigger person. And if you're being blamed by someone, it might be because they are the guilty party, in which case they are the ones with the real problem, not you.
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| Posted 9/9/05 10:25 AM |
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luvsbob4603
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Re: What do you do when you get blamed for something
i would argue my point and hope they will listen to my point.
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| Posted 9/9/05 10:27 AM |
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GenLCSW
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Re: What do you do when you get blamed for something
I argue my point...I hate when I get the blame for other peoples mistakes 
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| Posted 9/9/05 12:10 PM |
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Moehick
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Re: What do you do when you get blamed for something
Argue! Argue! Argue!
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| Posted 9/9/05 12:39 PM |
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Tany
Becoming a different woman
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Re: What do you do when you get blamed for something
Posted by MrsProfessor
I'd let it go. Some people always have to have the last word and they will never leave you alone. Better to tell yourself that you're being the bigger person. And if you're being blamed by someone, it might be because they are the guilty party, in which case they are the ones with the real problem, not you.
I completely agree. sometimes you can't win them all.
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| Posted 9/9/05 12:42 PM |
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Redhead
You Live, You Learn
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Re: What do you do when you get blamed for something
Posted by kelleherkm
that you shouldn't have been blamed for and people start giving you a hard time?
Let it go? Or argue your point?
I deal with it...
I will not....although OFTEN AM, get blamed for things i haven't done....
So if i am aware of it...i was confront it with the person.....
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| Posted 9/9/05 12:48 PM |
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MelissaG
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Re: What do you do when you get blamed for something
I definately argue.
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| Posted 9/9/05 12:51 PM |
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AnnBrunoXO
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Re: What do you do when you get blamed for something
If its worth arguing, i will argue.
If not I won't waste my time nor energy on it.
You know the truth - you don't need to prove anything to anyone, especially if you've tried to get your point across once and people still don't understand it.
Some people just like conflict and don't know when to stop, so sometimes you have to be the bigger better person.
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| Posted 9/9/05 12:52 PM |
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Janice
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Re: What do you do when you get blamed for something
I let a lot of things go.
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| Posted 9/9/05 12:54 PM |
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Jesaroo
is not the girl you knew
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Re: What do you do when you get blamed for something
it happens EVERYDAY at my job. my boss is nasty. i just ignore it now. its not worth me saying "ok, but i didnt do that"...
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| Posted 9/9/05 1:01 PM |
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dpli
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Re: What do you do when you get blamed for something
I usually state my case strongly once, and then I let it go. If it is work related, I would probably defend myself more vigorously. In my personal life, I let more go, but I almost always apologize and admit when I am wrong, so those who know me well ususally believe me.
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| Posted 9/9/05 1:29 PM |
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LadyMaravilla
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Re: What do you do when you get blamed for something
If it's worth it I will argue because I will not take blame for other people's crap!!!
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