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DumpsterBaby
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We found a new house!

I am super excited the after my awful, awful debacle over the summer we've found a fantastic house to make an offer on! I don't have any sticking points except one: I will not give my entire down payment upon contract. I will gladly give half or maybe even a little more, but after the fight of getting my DP back from the last deal and the potential court drama if we'd sued her, I just cannot do it. I literally don't care if we lose the house, but I am not giving all my DP upfront.

Is it normal to give half or all? Does it even matter to the seller?

Posted 1/7/13 11:14 AM
 
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chilltocam
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We found a new house!

We put down only part of the downpayment at the time of contract. I can't remember how much, but I don't think it was even close to half - I think we put down $15,000 out of a total downpayment of $83,000

Posted 1/7/13 11:37 AM
 

KaKa2323
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We found a new house!

We just gave a little less than half

Posted 1/7/13 11:41 AM
 

AngnShaun
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We found a new house!

Congrats!!! Good luck!!!

Posted 1/7/13 11:45 AM
 

ElizaRags35
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Re: We found a new house!

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We gave a little less than half.

Posted 1/7/13 12:09 PM
 

8ternity
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Re: We found a new house!

Congrats! we were putting down 15% and we put down 5% at contract. What a nightmare that must of been. Hoping this time goes smoothly for you!

Posted 1/7/13 12:56 PM
 

Pomegranate5
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Re: We found a new house!

Congrats!!! I don't know about the DP question but I'm happy that you found a house! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/7/13 3:05 PM
 

Mere09
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Re: We found a new house!

What happened the first time around?? Just curious...

Posted 1/7/13 3:42 PM
 

LInMI
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Posted 1/7/13 4:18 PM
 

DumpsterBaby
My compass when I'm lost

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Re: We found a new house!

Posted by Mere09

What happened the first time around?? Just curious...



We found it after our title search that the homeowner had $50k+ tax lien. She strung us along for months, her lawyer and realtor were beyond shady, and ultimately they refused to return our down payment. We had to fight and make certain concessions because we were told we'd lose our money if we didn't buy the house. Once we thought we'd had everything worked out, she told us she couldn't pay the lien AT ALL and the house is basically unmortgageable and can only be purchased cash. We lost a lot of money and time on the incidentals associated with the home buying process, and I am still waiting on a small refund from her lawyer, but I'm glad to be free of that house now. If anything, it prolonged the process so that we'd find this new house Chat Icon

Posted 1/7/13 4:40 PM
 

Christine Braun - Signature Premier Properties
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Re: We found a new house!

Congratulations on finding a new house!

As far as your question about the down payment -


Posted by DumpsterBaby


Is it normal to give half or all? Does it even matter to the seller?



- Of course, everything is negotiable, and sellers and their attorneys do care because the down payment is the incentive for the buyer to adhere to the contract. The less the buyer has at risk, the easier it is to walk away from the contract. And similarly, most attorneys don't want their buyers to put the full down payment down at contract, because they want to minimize the buyer's risk.


Most people split their down payment and put half down at contract and the remainder of cash down at closing.

Some of my FHA buyers who have minimum, 3.5% down, will put all of it down on contract to show good faith and strengthen their offer. Also, some seller's attorneys like to see a minimum of $10K down, so they won't accept 1.75% on a $300K house as adequate - they'll ask for more. And some buyers are putting a lot of cash down - e.g., 50% - and don't put half down upfront.

Just have you agent state your terms clearly upfront when making the offer, including how much you are putting down and when. I doubt you'll have an issue with half and half -- although if you have competition for the house, it can always strengthen your offer to put down more on contract (if you are comfortable with it). But the amount being put down on contract is usually not a "make or break" term.

Posted 1/7/13 5:12 PM
 

PearlJamChick
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Re: We found a new house!

I don't have answers to your questions but I just wanted to say GOOD LUCK and give you all sorts of good house vibes!!!

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Posted 1/8/13 10:31 AM
 

Mere09
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Re: We found a new house!

Posted by DumpsterBaby

Posted by Mere09

What happened the first time around?? Just curious...



We found it after our title search that the homeowner had $50k+ tax lien. She strung us along for months, her lawyer and realtor were beyond shady, and ultimately they refused to return our down payment. We had to fight and make certain concessions because we were told we'd lose our money if we didn't buy the house. Once we thought we'd had everything worked out, she told us she couldn't pay the lien AT ALL and the house is basically unmortgageable and can only be purchased cash. We lost a lot of money and time on the incidentals associated with the home buying process, and I am still waiting on a small refund from her lawyer, but I'm glad to be free of that house now. If anything, it prolonged the process so that we'd find this new house Chat Icon



Wow! I can't imagine how frustrating and sad all that must have been for you guys! Glad to hear things are going better now. Chat Icon

Posted 1/8/13 12:10 PM
 

DumpsterBaby
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My anchor when I get tossed

Re: We found a new house!

Posted by Mere09

Posted by DumpsterBaby

Posted by Mere09

What happened the first time around?? Just curious...



We found it after our title search that the homeowner had $50k+ tax lien. She strung us along for months, her lawyer and realtor were beyond shady, and ultimately they refused to return our down payment. We had to fight and make certain concessions because we were told we'd lose our money if we didn't buy the house. Once we thought we'd had everything worked out, she told us she couldn't pay the lien AT ALL and the house is basically unmortgageable and can only be purchased cash. We lost a lot of money and time on the incidentals associated with the home buying process, and I am still waiting on a small refund from her lawyer, but I'm glad to be free of that house now. If anything, it prolonged the process so that we'd find this new house Chat Icon



Wow! I can't imagine how frustrating and sad all that must have been for you guys! Glad to hear things are going better now. Chat Icon



Thanks Chat Icon Good luck with your HomePath house...I bet you'll get something awesome for a good price.

Posted 1/8/13 12:39 PM
 

Paramount
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Re: We found a new house!

I put down $500 to "hold" the house.

$10,000 payment toward the full down payment.

Paid everything else at closing.

Posted 1/8/13 1:04 PM
 
 

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