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roxygrl8
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Nicole
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Upset- question
If your 23 year old brother and FH's 18 year old sister hooked up would you be ehh whatever/ ******/ or upset?
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pinkandblue
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Re: Upset- question
I would be  honestly
that is TOO close to home IMHO
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| Posted 11/13/08 1:46 PM |
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Mommy2Boys
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Re: Upset- question
heh...that's a good question. I dont know that it would bother me but it might be different if I were in the situation.
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| Posted 11/13/08 1:47 PM |
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lucyloo
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Re: Upset- question
No. But then again I'm an only child so I can't really relate.
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| Posted 11/13/08 1:48 PM |
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Chrisnamy
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Re: Upset- question
I would be nervous if it didn't work out, because it will make things awkward at family gatherings
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| Posted 11/13/08 1:50 PM |
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youngmama
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Re: Upset- question
Wow...I had to think about this for awhile. I probably wouldnt care. The only thing is...it can get bad if they end up in a serious relationship and then they fight and break up...if its just a one time...few time thing...I wouldnt worry. But I can see how it can be a concern.
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| Posted 11/13/08 1:54 PM |
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MarisaK
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Re: Upset- question
Totally awkward .......
I don't think I'd really be 'allowed' to be mad ........but it's VERY uncomfortable 
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| Posted 11/13/08 1:57 PM |
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PotofLuck06
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Re: Upset- question
I'd find it awkward and uncomfortable at first....from there IDK how I would feel.
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| Posted 11/13/08 2:36 PM |
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twiceasnice
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Re: Upset- question
I wouldn't care as long as any possible drama is kept away from you or your FH. (Especially if they are in the wedding party)
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| Posted 11/13/08 3:43 PM |
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SnickNNick
In our new house!!
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Nicole
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Re: Upset- question
I would be upset, DH would be really mad. He doesn't like hearing about his sister kissing guys her own age (she's 19) let alone a 23 year old guy he knows. He would HATE HATE HATE it.
Message edited 11/13/2008 4:09:12 PM.
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| Posted 11/13/08 4:08 PM |
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HeatherRose
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Re: Upset- question
I wouldn't care other then the fact that I would want them to keep us out of their arguments etc. Its not blood relatives so I don't see what the big deal is.
And I guess if it doesn't work out it might be a little bit uncomfortable, but other then that, no.
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| Posted 11/13/08 4:09 PM |
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Cpt2007
A new love!
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Liz
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Re: Upset- question
Posted by Chrisnamy
I would be nervous if it didn't work out, because it will make things awkward at family gatherings
agreed. i have a friend who's mother's sister married her dad's brother. just worked out that way. but if it didn't work our in your situation it might be cause for awkwardness later on.
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| Posted 11/13/08 4:19 PM |
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Ophelia
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Re: Upset- question
Posted by Cpt2007
Posted by Chrisnamy
I would be nervous if it didn't work out, because it will make things awkward at family gatherings
agreed. i have a friend who's mother's sister married her dad's brother. just worked out that way. but if it didn't work our in your situation it might be cause for awkwardness later on.
my grandfather's brothers did that. they married the Aquavella girls 
they were all married for like..ever. they still are in fact. and they are all in their 80's!
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| Posted 11/13/08 4:30 PM |
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FaBuLoUsMrsT08
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Re: Upset- question
i'm an only child.. and so is DH so i can't really help personally. But i think my biggest concern would be things getting akward if it didn't work out!!
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| Posted 11/13/08 4:39 PM |
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mommyago
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Re: Upset- question
i wouldnt care honestly, but i would explain to them that they better be careful because if they do break up on a bad note, they will have no choice but to see each other at family parties and get togethers
but thats coming from someone who has a twin brother and we are both used to dating each others friends and everything
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| Posted 11/13/08 5:15 PM |
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KateDevine
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Re: Upset- question
I wouldn't be angry. But it is going to be totally awkward forever!
One of my friend's BIL hooked up with her really close friend. It was a disaster. This was 7 years ago and they can't be in the same room together and that is a FRIEND!!
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| Posted 11/13/08 5:18 PM |
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BlueDiamonds
mommy to 3 boys
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Re: Upset- question
coming from someone who experienced something similar, i wouldn't be mad but it would be totally awkward. and let's just say, it didn't work out. now they avoid each other at family functions. still makes me uncomfortable!
i really think people should be more considerate of the long term effects their actions can have.
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| Posted 11/13/08 5:55 PM |
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yankinmanc
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Re: Upset- question
I don't know, it could work.
My next door neighbors sister is married to her husbands twin brother, its like 20 years now, so it could be okay.
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| Posted 11/13/08 6:02 PM |
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Jackie24
~We Did it~
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Re: Upset- question
Posted by Mikismom
I would be honestly
that is TOO close to home IMHO
AGREED
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| Posted 11/13/08 6:21 PM |
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Ooohhhh, hard to say but I think it could be sticky. 
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| Posted 11/13/08 6:29 PM |
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BaroqueMama
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Re: Upset- question
I probably wouldn't care at all.
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| Posted 11/13/08 6:40 PM |
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SweetestOfPeas
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Re: Upset- question
that would FREAK ME OUT!
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| Posted 11/13/08 7:04 PM |
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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
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Re: Upset- question
DH parents did that. Their brother and sister ended up getting married.
It worked out great for them!
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| Posted 11/13/08 8:01 PM |
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MrsBlueSash
Love my sailor
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Re: Upset- question
Yes. Not only will it make any kind of group gathering funky because more than likely it won't work out, but she is WAY young IMO to be hooking up, but I'm a little old fashioned that way.
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| Posted 11/13/08 8:57 PM |
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