TMI question....maybe be silly too

Ladies that have had regular birth instead of C-section...... does your DH feel that things feel different down there

Reason for question I have had two friends make comments that made me start thinking...I had a C-section when I had DS.

1 friend said to me why would I want to try to have VBAC when I already had a c-section and it will keep my :you know what in tact" - she said that it stretches out

Another friend told me that she ripped during birth and her doctor stitched her up more so she can be "tighter" - she said that she and DH feel the difference when they - he even made a comment that it felt like their 1st time????

NOW - I find both of these comments hard to believe - I always thought that you go back to normal ...maybe I am wrong...

Thoughts????

Re: TMI question....maybe be silly too

I had a c, but I did hear the same thing. Someone was stitched up they felt like a virgin again.
Then again the first few times we tried when I got the ok I was surprised it hurt.

Re: TMI question....maybe be silly too

I just gave birth a month ago se we havent yet. I hope this isnt true!

Re: TMI question....maybe be silly too

The first few times DH and I after I had my DD (vaginal birth) hurt. I did feel tighter and I was a bit sore afterwards. It stopped being uncomfortable after awhile.