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ODonnell
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TMI question about BDing
So if all goes well at my sono tomorrow I may be having a retrieval on Sunday or Monday. Dr. B said that tonight would be the last night to have "relations" with my DH. I want to make sure that his sample is as good as it can be and understand that we should BD a few days before. But, I have a sono tomorrow morning and I feel weird BDing and then going for an internal exam.
What would you do? Should I just ask DH to take care of it or take care of it together without my nether regions coming in to play? 
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Posted 12/9/10 6:57 PM  |
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SummerMom
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Re: TMI question about BDing
The sono people have seen it all. I have to go in on CD3 during heavy af flow - that's much worse in my opinion! I don't think it's a big deal. Especially since we're talking at least going in for the sono 12 hours later.
By that point, I don't think you'd "look" much different than you would on your most fertile day with lots of EWCM, you know? Go for it! 
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| Posted 12/9/10 8:04 PM |
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PennyCat
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Re: TMI question about BDing
Posted by DavaDay
The sono people have seen it all. I have to go in on CD3 during heavy af flow - that's much worse in my opinion! I don't think it's a big deal. Especially since we're talking at least going in for the sono 12 hours later.
By that point, I don't think you'd "look" much different than you would on your most fertile day with lots of EWCM, you know? Go for it!
I agree!!
I would do what's good for me, don't feel awkward about what they might see, they have seen it all!!
ETA: Dr.B specifically tells me to BD the night before my appointments sometimes, in case I ovulate on my own. I never do ovulate on my own.. but try to follow dr's orders just in case! 
Message edited 12/9/2010 8:20:42 PM.
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| Posted 12/9/10 8:12 PM |
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Daisy21
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Re: TMI question about BDing
Honestly, if it's potentially better, just do it. You'll have to take a break anyway, so get it in while you can. Many people BD before internals. I wouldn't even think about it.
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| Posted 12/9/10 8:13 PM |
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pp1107
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Re: TMI question about BDing
TMI here but we always take care of business the day before I trigger but without him going anywhere inside me. There is always way too much pressure down there. Good luck!!!
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| Posted 12/9/10 8:14 PM |
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ODonnell
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Re: TMI question about BDing
Thanks for the advice. I guess I'm just over thinking everything at this stage!
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| Posted 12/9/10 9:53 PM |
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| Posted 12/9/10 10:04 PM |
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FlowerWife
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Re: TMI question about BDing
we always sometimes even the morning of monitoring appts . dr. B's job is to put DH's sperm in you, im sure he doesnt care and is used to seeing some already there
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| Posted 12/10/10 12:06 AM |
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angel333
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Re: TMI question about BDing
My DH and I always thought it was cute that Dr B would refer to BDing as to
"have relations!"  You'd think that in their profession, Drs, with evething that they see everyday they wouldn't think anything of it by just saying "have sex." But I always liked Dr B's manners. He was just always very proper.
On your question now, just and have fun! Like pp Dr's have seen it all! And I'm sure they've found some in all of us
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