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LuckyStar
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Time out
At what age did you find time outs to be an effective punishment? My DD just turned 14 months and has taken to flinging food off her high chair and laughing and pointing when we pick it up. This morning I took her tray away and turned her around to face the wall. She knew something was wrong but I doubt she realized it was that she threw the food.
What do you guys do if not a time out? I know she's young but she needs to learn that she can't throw food. I explain that we don't throw food because food is for eating and not a toy but she's really not old enough to understand that (at least I don't think she is).
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Posted 2/12/17 2:15 PM |
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olive98
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Lol at that age I just had the dogs eat what she threw on the floor which was half of her meal.
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Posted 2/12/17 3:27 PM |
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CindySN23
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I have been doing time outs since he was about that age. Once he could walk to the time out chair and he understood that his behavior was unacceptable. We still do it now and he is 3 and find that it does work.
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Posted 2/13/17 7:21 AM |
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14 months is too young for timeout and it is not an effective form of punishment. It means nothing to them and they don't understand. Removing the food and saying no throwing food immediately is effective for this age. At work when I have to write behavior plans for someone with cognitive skills of an infant, we keep things extremely simple and usually in this manner! Good luck!!!
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Posted 2/13/17 7:33 AM |
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evrythng4areason
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14 mo is not too young for a time out.
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Posted 2/13/17 7:44 AM |
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MrsT809
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Time out
Just say no and take the food away, even if just for a few minutes. I wouldn't try time outs until closer to age two or older depending on the kid. My first was a little under, my second was a little over when they were ready for time outs.
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Posted 2/13/17 7:56 AM |
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mrsm-2011
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Re: Time out
My DS didn't really get the concept until recently, he is 2 1/2.
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Posted 2/13/17 10:12 AM |
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BlueDiamonds
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Time out
i didn't start time outs until around age 2
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Posted 2/13/17 11:33 AM |
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PitterPatter11
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My DS is 2.5 and we started them right before he turned 2. Even at 2.5, he still doesn't get them. I sit him on the stairs and he's a screaming mess the entire 1-2 minutes and keeps getting up. I have to keep making him sit on the step over and over again.
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Posted 2/13/17 11:52 AM |
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drpepper318
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Re: Time out
Posted by MrsT809
Just say no and take the food away, even if just for a few minutes. I wouldn't try time outs until closer to age two or older depending on the kid. My first was a little under, my second was a little over when they were ready for time outs.
I agree.. my son is 21 months old and I just tell him NO firmly and take the food away if he throws it & just don't give him what he's looking for. He doesn't understand time out as punishment yet. I think around 2 is when they start to get it.
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Posted 2/13/17 1:29 PM |
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NYCGirl80
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Re: Time out
We started time outs with DS around 18 months. One minute per year old he was (so 1 minute at 1 year old, 2 minutes at 2 years old).
DD is 21 months old and hasn't had timeout yet, but I would do it if she misbehaved.
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Posted 2/13/17 4:27 PM |
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Salason
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Re: Time out
Posted by TwinMommyToBoys
14 months is too young for timeout and it is not an effective form of punishment. It means nothing to them and they don't understand. Removing the food and saying no throwing food immediately is effective for this age. At work when I have to write behavior plans for someone with cognitive skills of an infant, we keep things extremely simple and usually in this manner! Good luck!!!
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Posted 2/14/17 1:21 PM |
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