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Steaming mad!

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Bxgell2
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Beth

Steaming mad!

Remember a while back I posted about a co-worker, one of our investigators, who told my team leader, in front of me, that he thought that legal (ME) was "misinformed" and that they should go over my head?

Fast forward to a month ago. We have a case we're working on together and he gives me the file and asks me to look at it. I write up an extensive 4-page summary of the data, with evaluation and follow-up questions we need to ask of the complainant, which I send to him via email. STUPID ME, I forgot to CC our team leader on the email.

I haven't heard anything from the investigator for 4 weeks, until yesterday, our team leader forwards an email exchange between the two of them, to me. Basically the email exchange shows that our team leader was getting on his case about providing an analysis of the case to him, so finally the investigator sent him back something yesterday.

Guess what it is? MY EVALUATION AND ANALYSIS, word for word, without giving me ANY CREDIT.

So, I sent the following right now to my team leader and the investigator:

"I read through the attached - I agree with the evaluation and analysis, as much of the evaluation derives from the evaluation I conducted a few weeks ago (see attached)."

And, I added a few questions covering items that were still missing, that I had originally identified.

WHAT A FLIPPING CREEP!!!

Posted 12/19/07 4:03 PM
 
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MrsB-07
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Name:
b

Re: Steaming mad!

Chat Icon That's disgusting that that person did that!

Some people have SOME nerve - I don't blame you... I'd be infuriated

Posted 12/19/07 4:04 PM
 

Bxgell2
Perfection

Member since 5/05

16438 total posts

Name:
Beth

Re: Steaming mad!

Posted by MrsB-07

Chat Icon That's disgusting that that person did that!

Some people have SOME nerve - I don't blame you... I'd be infuriated



No kidding! I spent 2 days working on that thing! This guy is the first on my official shiat list! Chat Icon

Posted 12/19/07 4:06 PM
 

bicosi
life is a carousel

Member since 7/07

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Name:
M

Re: Steaming mad!

I would have forwarded the actual email that I had sent that a$$hole in the beginning to the team leader so he could see the date/time stamped of when you FIRST sent it out! what a jerk!

Posted 12/19/07 4:07 PM
 

MrsS2005
Mom of 3

Member since 11/05

13118 total posts

Name:
B

Re: Steaming mad!

What a total a$$hole.

Posted 12/19/07 4:08 PM
 

HarleyGirlFLA
Come on in

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Mel

Re: Steaming mad!

Disgusting. I dispise people like that. what a jerk. I hope what goes around comes around Chat Icon I would be furious

You handled the situation very professionally and I hope the team leader recognizes your work

Posted 12/19/07 4:09 PM
 

kerrycec03
Mom of 2 beautiful boys!!

Member since 6/06

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Name:
Kerry

Re: Steaming mad!

what a jerk. I'm so sorry, but I'm glad you leader sent you the email and you had a chance to defend/or represent YOUR work, not the jerks

Posted 12/19/07 4:11 PM
 

MarisaK
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Member since 5/06

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Name:
Marisa

Re: Steaming mad!

Posted by bicosi

I would have forwarded the actual email that I had sent that a$$hole in the beginning to the team leader so he could see the date/time stamped of when you FIRST sent it out! what a jerk!



ITA - what an arrogant jerk -

Posted 12/19/07 4:14 PM
 

MrsR
My love.

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Jennifer

Re: Steaming mad!

I love that you wrote that email. What a creep!

Posted 12/19/07 4:16 PM
 

Phyl
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The Mystical Azzhorse! ™

Re: Steaming mad!

What a real fvcker he is! Chat Icon

I like the e-mail you sent!Chat Icon

Posted 12/19/07 4:20 PM
 

Shelly
She's 7!!!

Member since 8/05

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Re: Steaming mad!

What an azz!! Good for you!!!

Posted 12/19/07 4:22 PM
 

MelToddJulia
Love my Family!

Member since 7/05

29064 total posts

Name:
Mel

Re: Steaming mad!

What a d!ck! I'm glad you wrote that e-mail!!!

Posted 12/19/07 4:34 PM
 

Tah-wee-ZAH
Kisses

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Re: Steaming mad!

Beth,

What an @$$Chat Icon Chat Icon I can't beleive the amount of total jerks you have had to deal with recently.

Someone "upstairs" is testing you and it's about time He moves on to someone elseChat Icon

Posted 12/19/07 6:00 PM
 

CkGm
They get so big, so fast :(

Member since 5/05

13848 total posts

Name:
Christine

Re: Steaming mad!

GRRRR....That is a bunch of cr ap! How does this guy sleep at night!Chat Icon

Posted 12/19/07 6:03 PM
 

MsMBV
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Member since 5/05

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Me

Re: Steaming mad!

Posted by MarisaK

Posted by bicosi

I would have forwarded the actual email that I had sent that a$$hole in the beginning to the team leader so he could see the date/time stamped of when you FIRST sent it out! what a jerk!



ITA - what an arrogant jerk -

ITA as well...and I LOVE your response.

Posted 12/19/07 6:25 PM
 

mrswask
Pookie Love

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Michal

Re: Steaming mad!

Posted by bicosi

I would have forwarded the actual email that I had sent that a$$hole in the beginning to the team leader so he could see the date/time stamped of when you FIRST sent it out! what a jerk!




Same hbere!!! What an azzhat! I hope he gets his!

Posted 12/19/07 6:29 PM
 
 

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