spinoff to staring........

what i hate more than ppl staring at me.. is when they look/stare and then say somethig to their friend about you!

GRRRRRRRRRR........ i HATE that! i mean, they could be saying nice stuff, but since i dont know i get mad and give them dirty looks.

i probably shouldnt do that but some ppl are just so damn obvious about it!!!!

im very insecure and it bothers me, so i get defensive. dh once said to me, "Baby, dont get mad, maybe she likes your hair or your outfit or something"
(it wasnt like this btw)

lol

Message edited 8/7/2006 3:15:29 AM.

Re: spinoff to staring........

hmmmmm
im a person who stares....but i dont whisoer to the person next to me....
People who are "different than the norm" like mohawks and stuff, i dont even notice

I stare at atractive people bc i admire beauty and style

but i totally see how that can be perceived as annoying and rude

Re: spinoff to staring........

There is a couple that takes my train every morning. She is always staring at people and then leaning over and whispering to her husband. It is rather rude

Re: spinoff to staring........

I hate it when people stare and I get VERY defensive, especially when it's women, but in all honesty, most often I suspect women stare when they are admiring something... I just learned that lesson last week. I was standing on the platform waiting for my train and these two women kept staring at me and then whispering to one another... I kept throwing them the dirtiest look until one of them came up to me and told me they were admiring my outfit and wanted to know where I got it... I was sooooooo embarrassed!

Re: spinoff to staring........

i know what you mean. i give dirty looks too. i need to work on not doing that though in case they ARE admring something