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jerseypanda
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Spinoff to Ponder this...

OK, here's the new question to consider (my apologies if it has already been asked)

And by the way, I am not referring to anyone in particular... just a general inquiry.

Can a poster be redeemed? If there are people who regularly create drama on certain threads, can they ever been accepted again by the LIF community?

Can someone who is a drama starter ever have their future posts taken seriously? Or will people look at the name who started it and immediately Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon?

From my perspective, I try to look at a post for what it is, not necessarily for who it's coming from. But I am not sure everyone thinks that way.

Posted 2/21/08 1:43 PM
 
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Re: Spinoff to Ponder this...

An occasional drama starter yes but a perpetual drama starter no.

Posted 2/21/08 1:44 PM
 

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Re: Spinoff to Ponder this...

Posted by 5ofClubs

An occasional drama starter yes but a perpetual drama starter no.



I agree. There are some people on here that I automatically Chat Icon when i see there name

Posted 2/21/08 1:49 PM
 

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Re: Spinoff to Ponder this...

since I don't consider myself to "know" anyone on these boards *except those that I have seen/touched/tastedChat Icon* I *try* to keep an open mind.

sometimes certain posters bring NOTHNG but drama...woe is me...blah blah blah...trying to be mean whatever. that just bores me. but if they also posted something interesting/fun, I'd participate in that.

I don't know what all this means Chat Icon

Posted 2/21/08 1:51 PM
 

imthecindyofcindyandkevin
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Re: Spinoff to Ponder this...

Certainly!! One poster in particular comes to mind (I won't name names so don't ask), she was new and something she said created a blowout and major drama. She wasn't even aware that she had created such controversy and the next day apologized for the trouble.

It wasn't a matter of her thoughts being "wrong", she simply communicated them poorly. I believe in the end she redeemed herself.

Posted 2/21/08 1:58 PM
 

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Re: Spinoff to Ponder this...

I believe they can, yes.......

Posted 2/21/08 2:08 PM
 

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Re: Spinoff to Ponder this...

Posted by leighdvm

I believe they can, yes.......



I agree.

Posted 2/21/08 2:09 PM
 

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Re: Spinoff to Ponder this...

A few posters here and several on LIF back in the day always posted for the purpose of causing stupid drama. ALWAYS. And you knew it was coming too. They made me go Chat Icon and I would usually not answer. Well, maybe sometimes if it really got my nose out of joint.Chat Icon

ETA: I forgot to answer the questionChat Icon I think anyone is capable of starting drama, but if it is not their sole purpose, then yes they can redeem themselves.

Message edited 2/21/2008 2:14:18 PM.

Posted 2/21/08 2:13 PM
 

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Re: Spinoff to Ponder this...

i am a product of redemption Chat Icon

Posted 2/21/08 2:14 PM
 

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Re: Spinoff to Ponder this...

Yes, I know a few...

Posted 2/21/08 2:14 PM
 

jerseypanda
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Re: Spinoff to Ponder this...

Posted by QuoteTheRaven424

i am a product of redemption Chat Icon



Ah, I see!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/21/08 2:21 PM
 

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Re: Spinoff to Ponder this...

I think I was.... Chat Icon

Posted 2/21/08 2:24 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Spinoff to Ponder this...

Posted by jerseypanda

Posted by QuoteTheRaven424

i am a product of redemption Chat Icon



Ah, I see!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



depending on who you talk to? Chat Icon

one of my best friends on here and IRL - started out as an enemy Chat Icon

Posted 2/21/08 2:33 PM
 
 

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