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spinoff to gender disappointment

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kristen92450
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spinoff to gender disappointment

How did you handle if your dc was very upset about the fact that the new baby isn't the same sex..

Posted 5/6/10 10:26 AM
 
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nrthshgrl
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Re: spinoff to gender disappointment

We didn't have that issue because they're close together but I would just push the "you're a big sister no matter what" - otherwise you can say the pre-school saying of " you get what you get, & you don't get upset". If that doesn't work, tell them it's Daddy's fault.Chat Icon

Posted 5/6/10 10:48 AM
 

FelAndJon
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Felice (aka LuckyBride2004)

Re: spinoff to gender disappointment

Posted by nrthshgrl

If that doesn't work, tell them it's Daddy's fault.Chat Icon



Go with that Chat Icon

Also, no matter what, I tend to find that the older sibling generally wants whatever the opposite of what you get. He/she will get over it!

Posted 5/6/10 10:50 AM
 

pinkandblue
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Stephanie

Re: spinoff to gender disappointment

my dd used to always talk about her baby sister when I was pregnant (with a boy Chat Icon )...I even asked her what she wanted to name him and she said "sister"

she got over it, she loves her brother so much

Posted 5/6/10 11:00 AM
 

kristen92450
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kristen

Re: spinoff to gender disappointment

Thanks ladies Chat Icon

Posted 5/7/10 7:03 PM
 
 

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