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Spinoff: It's OK To Let Babies Cry It Out At Bedtime
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Jax430
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Spinoff: It's OK To Let Babies Cry It Out At Bedtime
I don't have access to the actual study from Pediatrics at this time, but I am going to try to get it, as I'd like to read it myself. The article also briefly mentions two less extreme methods of CIO, which I thought people might find helpful.
Time Magazine Article
It’s O.K. to Let Babies Cry It Out at Bedtime Sleep-training a crying baby isn't easy, but a new study finds that certain techniques work in the short term without causing later psychological harm By ALEXANDRA SIFFERLIN | @acsifferlin | September 10, 2012 | 86
When infants can’t sleep, it usually means Mom and Dad aren’t getting much shut-eye either. That, in turn, can double the risk of depressive symptoms in mothers, cause strife in marriages and result in costly trips to the pediatrician.
For wiped-out parents wondering whether or not to sleep-train their restless babies, a new study in Pediatrics has some good news: strategies that let babies cry it out for limited periods while teaching them to sleep on their own can help families sleep better in the short term without causing long-term psychological damage in kids or weakening the bond between babies and parents.
The study looked at two sleep-training methods known as controlled comforting and camping out, both of which let babies cry it out for short amounts of time. Controlled comforting requires the parent to respond to their child’s cries at increasingly longer intervals to try to encourage the baby to settle down on her own. In camping out, the parent sits in a chair next to the child as he learns to fall asleep; slowly, over time, parents move the chair farther and farther away, until they are out of the room and the infant falls asleep alone.
(MORE: A History of Kids and Sleep: Why They Never Get Enough)
While neither strategy is as extreme as letting babies cry all night by themselves, they have been criticized over concerns that they may cause long-term emotional or psychological harm in babies, interfere with their ability to manage stress or cripple their relationship with their parents.
The new study by Australian researchers involved 326 children who had parent-reported sleep problems at 7 months. Half of the babies were put in the sleep-training group, in which parents learned helpful bedtime routines as well as the controlled-comforting or camping-out technique (parents could choose which strategy they wanted to use), and half were put in a control group that did not use sleep-training. The researchers followed up with the participants and their parents five years later. (By the study’s end, about 30% of families had dropped out.)
By age 6, the researchers found no significant differences between the kids in either group in terms of emotional health, behavior or sleep problems. In fact, slightly more children in the control group had emotional or behavioral problems than in the sleep-trained group.
Researchers also found no differences in mothers’ levels of depression or anxiety, or in the strength of parent-child bonds between families who had used sleep-training and those who hadn’t.
Meanwhile, earlier data from the study show that sleep-training does work: babies learn to go to sleep easier at bedtime and stay asleep longer at night. Based on the findings, the authors conclude that sleep-training is safe and effective, and call for an increase in parent education about these methods as well as more training for health specialists to recommend the procedures.
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Re: Spinoff: It's OK To Let Babies Cry It Out At Bedtime
Thank you for posting this!
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Posted 10/5/12 3:53 PM |
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Kelly9904
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Re: Spinoff: It's OK To Let Babies Cry It Out At Bedtime
To all moms, do what works for you and your family! Follow your gut and know that you know and understand your child best! Whether its CIO or not, isnt whats most important IMO
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Posted 10/5/12 11:24 PM |
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Kidsaplenty
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Re: Spinoff: It's OK To Let Babies Cry It Out At Bedtime
This study doesn't account for parents who use the extinction method, which is in fact leaving the infant alone to cry to for an unlimited amount of time.
One hour, two hours, with no intermittent comforting. The majority of parents that I have spoken to who utilize CIO do the extinction method. Ferberizing, which does include small intervals of comforting is a totally different animal than just leaving your kids to cry for an undermined amount of time with no comforting. If both methods were studied we might observe a difference in long term effects between each group.
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Posted 10/6/12 8:19 AM |
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Jax430
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Re: Spinoff: It's OK To Let Babies Cry It Out At Bedtime
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This study doesn't account for parents who use the extinction method, which is in fact leaving the infant alone to cry to for an unlimited amount of time.
One hour, two hours, with no intermittent comforting. The majority of parents that I have spoken to who utilize CIO do the extinction method. Ferberizing, which does include small intervals of comforting is a totally different animal than just leaving your kids to cry for an undermined amount of time with no comforting. If both methods were studied we might observe a difference in long term effects between each group.
Yes, this is true. I would love to find a study comparing these methods, but have not had time to fully look yet. The other article I posted does mention that pure CIO may not be looked on as favorably. I wish I had access to the actual journal article from Pediatrics.
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Posted 10/6/12 9:42 AM |
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Kidsaplenty
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Re: Spinoff: It's OK To Let Babies Cry It Out At Bedtime
Posted by Jax430
Posted by Kidsaplenty
This study doesn't account for parents who use the extinction method, which is in fact leaving the infant alone to cry to for an unlimited amount of time.
One hour, two hours, with no intermittent comforting. The majority of parents that I have spoken to who utilize CIO do the extinction method. Ferberizing, which does include small intervals of comforting is a totally different animal than just leaving your kids to cry for an undermined amount of time with no comforting. If both methods were studied we might observe a difference in long term effects between each group.
Yes, this is true. I would love to find a study comparing these methods, but have not had time to fully look yet. The other article I posted does mention that pure CIO may not be looked on as favorably. I wish I had access to the actual journal article from Pediatrics.
If you ever find one let me know, I'd love to read more about it.
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Posted 10/6/12 10:14 AM |
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butterfly20
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Spinoff: It's OK To Let Babies Cry It Out At Bedtime
Also good to keep in mind, the Feber CIO says not to start is before 4 months old......... I doubt anyone on here is denying their newborn comfort.
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Posted 10/6/12 4:53 PM |
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when you are ready to handle it i think letting your baby cry it out is the best method. of course you have to know your babys cry's. make sure they are dry and feed,and not in any pain or discomfort,use common sense, but after 3 nights (yes nervewracking nights) may baby starting going to bed w/o crying.
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Posted 10/6/12 7:21 PM |
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MrsG72907
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Re: Spinoff: It's OK To Let Babies Cry It Out At Bedtime
Posted by Kelly9904
To all moms, do what works for you and your family! Follow your gut and know that you know and understand your child best! Whether its CIO or not, isnt whats most important IMO
I agree 100% We started a sleep routine VERY early when DD was probably about 1 month old. I would say it was a combo of both methods. We would put her down, sit for a few to comfort, rock and rub, leave the room and repeat as needed if crying was "i need you now!!" cry or if crying lasted more than 5-10 minutes. We would almost never pick her up but sit close and touch/rub her so she would know we were there for her.At first this routine continued for an hour and it lessened day by day. By 3 months she would go to bed without a peep and would be sleeping within 10 minutes and would STTN (8 hours). It only got better from there. Now at almost 11 months she sleeps 12-13 hours a night and is usually begging us to go to bed! I can count on one hand the amount of times she has woken at night.
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Posted 10/6/12 9:30 PM |
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