Saw one of the girls that sees my dr today...

we were going to start commuting together b/c we seemed to be on the same schedule w/ our bloodwork and sonos, and we live over an hour away from our dr. Well, I never heard from her so I figured she got pregnant and didn't need to go anymore. I was right. I saw her today and she was telling me that she's pregnant.... so I congratulated her and told her what I'm up to w/ injections. She said she had to take those too and spent about 10 mins talking to me. I'm happy for her but it was kind of a blow to the stomach for me since now she's pg and I'm still not. I've been going much longer than she has. This SUCKS!!!

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I am sorry. I totally know how you feel.

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I totally understand how and why you are feeling this way I used to, but being at this for 15 months now, I've forced myself to have a new approach to my outlook. I have to, otherwise, I would stay in bed and cry all day everyday. So, whenever I see someone in my drs office that is pregnant, it actually gives me hope because that's what these doctors specifically do and to see that other women are getting pregnant with treatments by these doctors I can't help but feel hopeful that one day I'll be one of those woman.

Of course though, I do allow myself a jealous "why not me" moment, but I then I need to turn the switch. However, when I do occassional allow myself to have pity party days here and there.

Have you considered seeing a therapist to talk about what you are going through? Does your RE practice offer this service? I know mine does. But I've been seeing a therapist for years and it really does help to talk about it.

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I'm so sorry, that must have been very difficult

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I am so sorry