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RSVP'ing yes to a party, then saying no??

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saraH
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RSVP'ing yes to a party, then saying no??

I know in the grand scheme of things, this is no big deal. But in all honesty, what are your thoughts on this.

I just got a fb message from someone about my DD's party in 2 weeks. They can't make it now. Seems like a non-emergency and no one is sick. The party's in 2 weeks.

I understand about emergency's and kids getting sick, but this just seems like a total bs excuse.

Posted 3/11/11 10:13 AM
 
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EricaAlt
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Re: RSVP'ing yes to a party, then saying no??

Did she give you a reason or did something come up?
It happens to me sometimes with a friend of mine. Her son was a premie (10 weeks early) so he had a surgery coming up and he just got over a cold. She didn't want him around lots of kids 2 weeks b4 the surgery and I understood that

Posted 3/11/11 10:18 AM
 

nferrandi
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Re: RSVP'ing yes to a party, then saying no??

I would be a little annoyed, but I would be grateful that it was before I gave in my final count.

Posted 3/11/11 10:22 AM
 

bicosi
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Re: RSVP'ing yes to a party, then saying no??

Sh!t happens.. I'd be thankful that they were considerate enough to give you a heads up rather than blow it off completely kwim?Chat Icon

Posted 3/11/11 10:30 AM
 

jlk51496
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Re: RSVP'ing yes to a party, then saying no??

Posted by bicosi

Sh!t happens.. I'd be thankful that they were considerate enough to give you a heads up rather than blow it off completely kwim?Chat Icon

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ITA - they are giving you plenty of notice --two weeks!!! I would be more grateful about that..but only a lil sad if I *truly wanted them there Chat Icon

Posted 3/11/11 10:33 AM
 

LIMOMx2
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Re: RSVP'ing yes to a party, then saying no??

Posted by bicosi

Sh!t happens.. I'd be thankful that they were considerate enough to give you a heads up rather than blow it off completely kwim?Chat Icon



I agree. Nothing to get ****** at IMOChat Icon

Posted 3/11/11 10:39 AM
 

Bridex100
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Re: RSVP'ing yes to a party, then saying no??

No big deal.

2 weeks notice is much better than telling you the day of or being a no show.

Posted 3/11/11 10:40 AM
 

emomma17
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Re: RSVP'ing yes to a party, then saying no??

I wouldn't be annoyed really, but that is just me. I know stuff happens and it is what it is. If they gave you a BS reason then maybe.

Posted 3/11/11 10:42 AM
 

kerrycec03
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Re: RSVP'ing yes to a party, then saying no??

Posted by bicosi

Sh!t happens.. I'd be thankful that they were considerate enough to give you a heads up rather than blow it off completely kwim?Chat Icon



agree 100%!!

Posted 3/11/11 10:43 AM
 

saraH
happy birthday sweet kate!

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I know that God exsists, I held her in my arms...

Re: RSVP'ing yes to a party, then saying no??

Posted by emomma17

I wouldn't be annoyed really, but that is just me. I know stuff happens and it is what it is. If they gave you a BS reason then maybe.



And I could be totally wrong about that. I'm just a bit put off by it, kwim?

Yes the party is still going on and I messaged her back thanks for th eheads up, but still just doesn't sit right with me.

Posted 3/11/11 10:44 AM
 
 

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