Random question...about your own mom..

If you and your mom were to have an arguement and she left your house mad...would she still say goodbye to your dc?

My mom and I had a little fight tonight. Actually, she was the one fighting with me. She walked right past Megan and out of the house. My heart broke as Megan looked after her, I guess wondering where Grandma was going. It really made me mad. Shes a baby..she has NOTHING to do with our arguements whether they are big or small. I would NEVER do that to a child. I guess you react on anger at the moment but its still wrong. Makes me angry because pretty soon Megan will fully understand if it happens again and how do I explain to her why grandma just ignored her and walked out?

Your mom ever do this to you or if she were to..would you be upset?

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never happened and i dont think it would...

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no, my mom she loves DS way to much, she wouldn't hold him accountable b/c we fought.
Me and my sister gt into a horrible fight when DS was 2 months old and afterwards she was still holding/playing with my DS even though we weren't speaking at that moment

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It hasn't happened to me. But, I think in the heat of the moment, your mom most likely wasn't thinking clearly. she could have been so mad/upset she didn't think to say bye by to Megan. I think it oculd happen to anyone. I know I'm certainly not perfect, and I could see it happening with my mom or anyone for that matter.

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Posted by bayla

no, my mom she loves DS way to much, she wouldn't hold him accountable b/c we fought.

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Posted by pmpkn087

Posted by bayla

no, my mom she loves DS way to much, she wouldn't hold him accountable b/c we fought.

I don't think this means that the grandma doesn't love her grandchild. Or doesn't love her enough.

I think she got caught up in the heat of the argument and wasn't thinking clearly. That doesn't mean she is holding the baby accountable. It just means that she stormed out without saying bye bye.

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I dont think she did it on spite. I'm sure she was so upset she just wanted to leave and didnt' think about it. You know???

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That has never happened. If we argue, it's usually on the phone.
She even calls to talk to Bryan. I put the phone to his ear and I see him smile and laugh.
We hardly ever argue.

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I'm SURE she got caught up in the moment and perhaps was starting to cry (cause that's what my Mom may do) and didn't want your DD to see her? I'm sure she felt awful about it too. I hope everything works out.

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Posted by nrthshgrl

Posted by Shelly

Posted by pmpkn087


I think she got caught up in the heat of the argument and wasn't thinking clearly. That doesn't mean she is holding the baby accountable. It just means that she stormed out without saying bye bye.

I agree. Its not the best thing to do, but we have all gotten caught up in the moment. If she stormed out of your house mad, she probably was very upset and just wasn't thinking.

I agree.

My mom & I have never argued like that.

I'm sorry you're going through a rough time.

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I don't THINK she'd ever do that- but I've never been in the situation. BUT- if it were to happen, I'm sure my mom would be all lovey with DD- more out of spite to annoy me than anything else

I think your mom wasn't thinking and just walked out. I know I've gotten really caught up in my own anger at times and did things without thinking.

I'm sorry you had to go through that- I hope you both work it out really soon.....

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Thats so sad.... I'm so sorry