We only have one baby close to ds's age in our family and they still haven't met that's a separate issue between my DH and others... Anyhow, I'm trying to decide if a party should be thrown out at a restaurant with all aunts uncles the older children out close friends and their children. Or just have an intimate small party for him with us and his grandparents at our home... So being that there isn't many babies his age in our family and our close friends children are older ages 3 and up what should I do?