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Question about DH and baby...

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BaroqueMama
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Question about DH and baby...

Do you say that your DH is "babysitting" when he stays with the kids?

Posted 6/27/06 11:34 AM
 
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JennChris
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Re: Question about DH and baby...

Nope, they are his kids... I say he "has" them or "is taking the kids"... when someone else has them they are babysitting.

Posted 6/27/06 11:36 AM
 

Michelle
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Re: Question about DH and baby...

Nope, babysitting is for non parents.

Posted 6/27/06 11:37 AM
 

BaroqueMama
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Re: Question about DH and baby...

Posted by JennChris

Nope, they are his kids... I say he "has" them or "is taking the kids"... when someone else has them they are babysitting.



AMEN! I was going to wait to post how I feel about this to see responses, but this is my thoughts EXACTLY.

Posted 6/27/06 11:37 AM
 

joenick
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Re: Question about DH and baby...

No...never. Our children are our shared responsibility. We both brought them into this world, so it's both our "job" to raise them.

Well...let's face it, of course we as the moms do more with/for our children (I am a SAHM, so it's what I do day in, day out). But still, when our kids are left with their dads, it's not babysitting. It's stepping up to the plate.

I love when my dh is with the kids without me. It's like he's gotta prove he can do it. So he feeds them, bathes them AND cleans the house. I say Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon !

AND, could you do it more often??Chat Icon

Posted 6/27/06 11:39 AM
 

yankinmanc
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Re: Question about DH and baby...

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Do you say that your DH is "babysitting" when he stays with the kids?



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Posted 6/27/06 11:41 AM
 

4monkeys
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Re: Question about DH and baby...

NO WAYYYYYYYYY !!!!


He doesnt do much else when hes with the kids, but I also hate when he says "I'll watch the kids for you" I stop him in his tracks IMMEDIATELY Chat Icon

I do try to leave mini reminders or to-do lists that he can get done while watching them.
why does mommy have to be mary poppins while "she has the kids" Chat Icon

Posted 6/27/06 12:02 PM
 

monkeybride
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Re: Question about DH and baby...

No he hasn't yet.

Posted 6/27/06 12:02 PM
 

Bxgell2
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Re: Question about DH and baby...

Um, no, babysitting refers to watching SOMEONE ELSE'S CHILDREN!

Posted 6/27/06 12:29 PM
 

IrishTracy
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Re: Question about DH and baby...

Hell no!! I hate when people refer to it as that. It's his kid so there for he is doing his fatherly duties!!

Posted 6/27/06 12:36 PM
 

momAGAIN
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Re: Question about DH and baby...

no I dont, but he will say it, Then I will be like what??????they r your kids!!

Message edited 6/27/2006 12:44:53 PM.

Posted 6/27/06 12:44 PM
 

Moehick
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Re: Question about DH and baby...

No way she is his daughter as much as she is mineChat Icon

Posted 6/27/06 1:02 PM
 

Corinne
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Re: Question about DH and baby...

i say hes watching the baby

Posted 6/27/06 1:09 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: Question about DH and baby...

I have a friend that says her DH is babysitting. I find it really annoying. I say "He's got them". If anyone said he was babysitting, I'd probably reply with "Yes, I was babysitting them yesterday."

Posted 6/27/06 1:22 PM
 

yankinmanc
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Re: Question about DH and baby...

Posted by nrthshgrl

I have a friend that says her DH is babysitting. I find it really annoying. I say "He's got them". If anyone said he was babysitting, I'd probably reply with "Yes, I was babysitting them yesterday."



I would have to say, I have been baby sitting this kid for the last 6 months, oh and not to mention the almost 10 months that I was incubating him, so in reality for babysitting his kid for 16 months, thats 480 days, 11520 hours, at $10 an hour....he owes me....

$115,200.00


ps, I don't take credit cards.

Posted 6/27/06 2:47 PM
 

ddunne2
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Re: Question about DH and baby...

DH said he was babysitting once and I had to correct his choice of words!

Posted 6/27/06 2:58 PM
 

SoinLove
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Re: Question about DH and baby...

Posted by Michelle

Nope, babysitting is for non parents.



I agree, though DH has referred to watching Christopher as "babysitting" a couple of times just to tick me off.

Posted 6/27/06 3:55 PM
 

dandr10199
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Re: Question about DH and baby...

Posted by JennChris

Nope, they are his kids... I say he "has" them or "is taking the kids"... when someone else has them they are babysitting.



Same here.

Posted 6/27/06 4:03 PM
 

mable
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Re: Question about DH and baby...

I agree, sometimes when I am out with friends they are like who is watching the baby.. um her father???? dopey people!

Posted 6/27/06 4:36 PM
 

BaroqueMama
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Re: Question about DH and baby...

Oh thank the lord because I always find it so annoying when people tell me their hubbys are babysitting. It's like, ok, aren't they his kids too?

Posted 6/27/06 7:23 PM
 
 

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