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parents with older children- sex question?

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aliwnec10
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parents with older children- sex question?

Does it end? Chat Icon

For example, my brother is living with us now. He's really cramping our sex life since he's always around. I hate having sex with people in the house. I feel like they know we're doing it and i wouldn't want to make them uncomfortable. KWIM? Plus our house... you can hear everything. This just s*cks. Chat Icon

so what do those parents with older kids do when it comes to sex? i mean as the children get older, they stay up later and later at night. There isn't much free time at all until they get a license, etc.

By the time i'm ready for bed, i'm ready for bed and that's it. Chat Icon

So how do you do it? when? I want details! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/11/10 9:15 PM
 
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KateDevine
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Re: parents with older children- sex question?

I feel ya. When Katie is here, she lives in my dining room and doesn't have DOOR and our only bathroom is right outside our doorChat Icon

LOL. We act like we are in high schoolChat Icon

Posted 4/11/10 9:17 PM
 

aliwnec10
mom of 3 boys

Member since 4/06

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Ali

Re: parents with older children- sex question?

Posted by KateDevine

I feel ya. When Katie is here, she lives in my dining room and doesn't have DOOR and our only bathroom is right outside our doorChat Icon

LOL. We act like we are in high schoolChat Icon



My mom was never around, so i never had to sneak around. Chat Icon

The only thing i can think of is to park the car somewhere. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

So what did kids do in high school? Chat Icon

Posted 4/11/10 9:18 PM
 

lipglossjunky73
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Re: parents with older children- sex question?

When my older stepdaughter was 12 she asked us if we were doing jumping jacks in the bedroom Chat Icon

When she saw me turn purple she realized what it was and was like Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

It's tough! Especially when they go through the gruesome realization that their parents "do it " Chat Icon

Posted 4/11/10 9:22 PM
 

KateDevine
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Re: parents with older children- sex question?

Posted by aliwnec10

Posted by KateDevine

I feel ya. When Katie is here, she lives in my dining room and doesn't have DOOR and our only bathroom is right outside our doorChat Icon

LOL. We act like we are in high schoolChat Icon



My mom was never around, so i never had to sneak around. Chat Icon

The only thing i can think of is to park the car somewhere. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

So what did kids do in high school? Chat Icon



Park the car somewhere! Want me to tell you a few places?Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/11/10 9:41 PM
 

MrsRivera
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Re: parents with older children- sex question?

Posted by aliwnec10

For example, my brother is living with us now. He's really cramping our sex life since he's always around. I hate having sex with people in the house. I feel like they know we're doing it and i wouldn't want to make them uncomfortable. KWIM? Plus our house... you can hear everything. This just s*cks. Chat Icon



I just want to say that I feel your pain on this one. My mom's been living with us for almost 18 months Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon and it has taken a HUGE toll on our sex life. Our house is pretty large, but much like your brother, my mom is ALWAYS here, and our bedroom is halfway over our living room, which is where she likes to stay up until 2am watching CNN Chat Icon

We try to be quiet, but the truth of the matter is, it's our house, and SHE'S the guest.

This is something that I think about for when my DC get older, though. All of our bedroom are upstairs, so that probably helps.

Posted 4/11/10 9:45 PM
 

hbugal
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Re: parents with older children- sex question?

I cant even begin to tell you how many times the kids have come pounding on our door interrupting us...Chat Icon At least they knock....Chat Icon

I cant really say that it's put a damper on our sex life. But we've had to learn to enjoy things alot more quietly than we did before...Chat Icon

We save the more adventuresome evenings for when noone is home. Gives us something to look forward to..Chat Icon

Posted 4/11/10 9:51 PM
 
 

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