ok my vent==****** after this weekend...

people and their violin

let me vent a minute.

I have to say...people should think before they speak and stop beyotching.


ok-you live in a apt--not a house---ok-cry the blues you have no money yet spend it on clothes and shoes and habits like bagels and coffee 24-7...do whatever you want!
****. get pierced-tattooed...get a small man to strip for you but stop and think.
There are people in the world that spend thousands on infertility without the proper coverage or NONE!
sO..SIL..after 8 years of my own infertility--or other people who are still waiting or it took 5-6-7 times be happy these are your only problems..***!!!!!!!!!!!
They wish their only problem was they cannot buy a starbucks, or expensive shoes, (which you manage to do somehow.... and one day--I'm going to call you on it...you cannot be that poor apparently. some people have to refinance their house or try to pay their mortgage at the same time as they wish for what you do have! a child!!!!!!everyone is entitled to feel better or do what they want---but watch who you say it to or in front of...its only good manners, in fact...most infertility people-(like the girl at your table) do not wear signs on their back saying so. so please I am a verrrrrry nice person but the pity card is getting played out.
ok.vent over...
now watch them search my name...opps

Message edited 10/6/2008 6:58:04 AM.

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how was the wedding!

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J

I think some people have different ideas of what is impt..

To me Coffee is Coffee.. I only like italian espresso.. So I rather save 40 bucks a week and buy a new pair of XXX instead of coffee.

Capise?

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When wealth is lost, nothing is lost; when health is lost, something is lost; when character is lost, all is lost.

-Billy Graham

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very good points...

I just thought it was so rude and I saw the look of hurt on that girls face...not everyone wears their heart on their sleeve you know?
and granted she either didn't think or didn't know but point is...don't complain if clearly the problem is budgeting and priorities.
A splurge once in awhile is fine and all deserve it but 24.7 and then you complain to us connnnnnnnnstantly?

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I totally understand splurging on yourself once in a while BUT that is once in a while!!! not everyweek or everyday! if your gonna do it all the time STOP CRYING THAT YOU HAVE NO MONEY, then go shopping right behind it and flash things off! KWIM?

as for the fertility thing some people are insensitive azzholes..... seriously and some dont see it being a big deal if you cant have a baby. I was told i could never get preggo, possible with fertility but even that they didnt think i would be able to hold on. Well somehow i got 2 without any help at all!!! (KWIM) It hurts, i might not be able to do this again. i dont think i want anymore but i DO want the option! Yes we dont walk around with signs on our backs stating whats going on in our lives, i think people need to think a lil before they open there mouths!!!