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Not sure if this was a compliment..or insult...

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mitabtrfly

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Not sure if this was a compliment..or insult...

Yesterday we went to a BBQ at a friends house and I saw a girlfriend who I haven't seen in a while. She saw my belly and was telling me how cute I looked, and how she thought I was all belly. She then went on to say...you don't look any different...maybe just your nose??? Umm..excuse me??? I don't think my nose looks ANY different, bigger or smaller.

Would you have been offended??? I was!

Posted 5/14/07 11:41 AM
 
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Ang-Rich
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Re: Not sure if this was a compliment..or insult...

For I while I was sure that my nose wasn't changing but people started saying the same thing to me. When I really looked - it was true. But it makes sense since we have such a hard time breathing that our body (nose) would need to accomodate.

Sounds like she really was very sweet in terms of compliments. Based on everything else - I would not be offended. She sounds excited for you.

But I understand how weird it is to hear someone say that. Chat Icon

Posted 5/14/07 11:48 AM
 

sometimesmommy
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Re: Not sure if this was a compliment..or insult...

Dont be offended-the nose comment is pretty common.

Posted 5/14/07 1:55 PM
 

nbc188
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Re: Not sure if this was a compliment..or insult...

I think my nose has gotten wider, and people say it hasn't (but I really think it has Chat Icon ). Just can't win, you know?

Posted 5/14/07 1:56 PM
 

want2beamom
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Re: Not sure if this was a compliment..or insult...

You know, people are SOOOO obsessed with all the old wives tales---how you are supposed to look, and things like that......dont worry about it---just let it roll off your back...


I had people in my family tell me it looks like I lost weight----they said I was so swollen looking last time they see me (I NEVER thought I swelled). I was a little mad about this, but whatever!

Posted 5/14/07 2:02 PM
 

MST9106
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Re: Not sure if this was a compliment..or insult...

You're pregnant...I would stop analyzing all the comments that are made to you...people who see a preggo woman see things that aren't even there...

Posted 5/14/07 2:14 PM
 

DanaRenee
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Re: Not sure if this was a compliment..or insult...

Posted by sometimesmommy

Dont be offended-the nose comment is pretty common.



yeah, someone told me my whole face looks different!! Chat Icon

Posted 5/14/07 2:16 PM
 

hbugal
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Re: Not sure if this was a compliment..or insult...

We do seem to change in every way possible during pregnancy dont we?...People talk about how a baby girl will change a mommys face...I dont think that this has ever happened to me. But I do know that my face is very puffy this time around..and its not so much from the limited weight gain but more from being pregnant.

Posted 5/14/07 2:40 PM
 
 

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