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Kate
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No response card with wedding invitation -
Is this the new trend? DH received a wedding invitation today from someone who works for him. The invitation wasn't mailed, it was left on his desk. Instead of an RSVP card, there is a website on the back - RSVPify, where we are supposed to RSVP.
Just wondering if this is the new way?
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Posted 5/11/16 11:09 PM  |
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ElizaRags35
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No response card with wedding invitation -
Yup. I've gotten 2 like that this year.
One actually had a response card, email address, website, and a Facebook invite that people could choose to respond to.
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| Posted 5/11/16 11:11 PM |
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alli3131
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No response card with wedding invitation -
Yes. I wish it was a thing when I got married. I could have saved $$$$
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| Posted 5/12/16 5:57 AM |
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PitterPatter11
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Yes. My BIL did this.
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| Posted 5/12/16 6:14 AM |
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RainyDay
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No response card with wedding invitation -
I wish all invites had this option
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| Posted 5/12/16 6:53 AM |
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mommy2be716
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No response card with wedding invitation -
idk maybe I am more traditional, but I hate this lol... I like the idea of RSVPing on paper, not online. To me, a wedding is a formal event and RSVPing online is so informal. RSVPing online reminds of e-vite or something.
It definitely saves money on postage for the RSVP card, though so I'll give them that!
Message edited 5/12/2016 7:52:20 AM.
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| Posted 5/12/16 7:51 AM |
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ali120206
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No response card with wedding invitation -
Yes - the last wedding we were invited to did this.
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| Posted 5/12/16 8:22 AM |
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TwinDani
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No response card with wedding invitation -
I received one that had the response card and it asked to send an email. I think that is a great idea.
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| Posted 5/12/16 8:49 AM |
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HomeIsWithU
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Re: No response card with wedding invitation -
Yes, the last few weddings we've been invited to were like this. To be honest, it's probably a lot easier for the bride and groom to keep track of RSVP's this way, plus it saves on paper and stamps. I agree - I'm traditional and prefer mailed RSVP's, which is why we did it that way. It seems more "formal" to me. But I can totally see the benefit of doing it via a website.
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| Posted 5/12/16 9:12 AM |
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MrsO
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Re: No response card with wedding invitation -
I am a traditionalist so I would not be a fan. My one question would be - what if someone doesn't have a computer - how are they going to rsvp?
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| Posted 5/12/16 10:30 AM |
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Mom1234
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Re: No response card with wedding invitation -
Posted by MrsO
I am a traditionalist so I would not be a fan. My one question would be - what if someone doesn't have a computer - how are they going to rsvp?
who doesn't have a computer??
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| Posted 5/12/16 12:54 PM |
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JennZ
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Re: No response card with wedding invitation -
Posted by Mom1234
Posted by MrsO
I am a traditionalist so I would not be a fan. My one question would be - what if someone doesn't have a computer - how are they going to rsvp?
who doesn't have a computer??
My mom doesn't.
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| Posted 5/12/16 12:56 PM |
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MarathonKnitter
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Re: No response card with wedding invitation -
Posted by Mom1234
Posted by MrsO
I am a traditionalist so I would not be a fan. My one question would be - what if someone doesn't have a computer - how are they going to rsvp?
who doesn't have a computer??
older relatives.
i, too am a traditionalist. not a fan, but i see the appeal.
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| Posted 5/12/16 1:12 PM |
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HomeIsWithU
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Re: No response card with wedding invitation -
Posted by JennZ
Posted by Mom1234
Posted by MrsO
I am a traditionalist so I would not be a fan. My one question would be - what if someone doesn't have a computer - how are they going to rsvp?
who doesn't have a computer??
My mom doesn't.
I'm sure anyone who doesn't have a computer can ask another close relative to RSVP for them. That's how my grandmother RSVP'd for my brother's wedding...she just asked my mom to log onto the site and rsvp yes for her.
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| Posted 5/12/16 1:16 PM |
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alli3131
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Re: No response card with wedding invitation -
Posted by HomeIsWithU
Posted by JennZ
Posted by Mom1234
Posted by MrsO
I am a traditionalist so I would not be a fan. My one question would be - what if someone doesn't have a computer - how are they going to rsvp?
who doesn't have a computer??
My mom doesn't.
I'm sure anyone who doesn't have a computer can ask another close relative to RSVP for them. That's how my grandmother RSVP'd for my brother's wedding...she just asked my mom to log onto the site and rsvp yes for her.
Plus every library has computers.
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| Posted 5/12/16 1:22 PM |
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MrsO
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Re: No response card with wedding invitation -
Posted by alli3131
Posted by HomeIsWithU
Posted by JennZ
Posted by Mom1234
Posted by MrsO
I am a traditionalist so I would not be a fan. My one question would be - what if someone doesn't have a computer - how are they going to rsvp?
who doesn't have a computer??
My mom doesn't.
I'm sure anyone who doesn't have a computer can ask another close relative to RSVP for them. That's how my grandmother RSVP'd for my brother's wedding...she just asked my mom to log onto the site and rsvp yes for her.
Plus every library has computers.
You would have to know how to use a computer to do that.
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| Posted 5/12/16 2:16 PM |
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sunnygirl
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Re: No response card with wedding invitation -
Considering people nowadays don't know how to ravpnto anything anymore I think it's a great idea give them as many options as possible
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| Posted 5/12/16 6:40 PM |
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WonderLady
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Re: No response card with wedding invitation -
Posted by MrsO
Posted by alli3131
Posted by HomeIsWithU
Posted by JennZ
Posted by Mom1234
Posted by MrsO
I am a traditionalist so I would not be a fan. My one question would be - what if someone doesn't have a computer - how are they going to rsvp?
who doesn't have a computer??
My mom doesn't.
I'm sure anyone who doesn't have a computer can ask another close relative to RSVP for them. That's how my grandmother RSVP'd for my brother's wedding...she just asked my mom to log onto the site and rsvp yes for her.
Plus every library has computers.
You would have to know how to use a computer to do that.
I do stuff online for my grandma all the time.
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| Posted 5/12/16 9:05 PM |
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Nickles01
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No response card with wedding invitation -
People tend to answer much quicker with a computer than by mail. Although I'm very traditional in my ways, I think the link is a great idea.
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| Posted 5/13/16 10:00 AM |
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